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Phew, Now I can stop taking all that dried, ground killer whale penis.
http://www.citynews.ca/news/news_21306.aspx
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Therapists: 3-13 Minutes The Perfect Length For Sex
Thursday April 3, 2008
By Megan K. Scott The Associated Press
The following article contains adult themes. Viewer discretion is advised.
Maybe men had it right all along: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed. A survey of sex therapists concluded the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes. The findings, to be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, strike at the notion that endurance is the key to a great sex life.
If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."
Researcher Eric Corty said he hoped to ease the minds of those who believe that "more of something good is better, and if you really want to satisfy your partner, you should last forever."
The questions were not gender-specific, said Corty (who, it must be noted, is male). But he said prior research has shown that both men and women want foreplay and sexual intercourse to last longer.
Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, cited a four-week study of 1,500 couples in 2005 that found the median time for sexual intercourse was 7.3 minutes. (Women were armed with stopwatches.)
It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer, said Marianne Brandon, a clinical psychologist and director of Wellminds Wellbodies in Annapolis, Md.
"There are so many myths in our culture of what other people are doing sexually," Brandon said. "Most people's sex lives are not as exciting as other people think they are."
Fifty members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research in the U.S. and Canada were surveyed by Corty, an associate professor of psychology at Penn State Erie, The Behrend College, and student Jenay Guardiani. Thirty-four members, or 68 percent, responded, although some said the optimal time depended on the couple.
Corty said he hoped to give an idea of what therapists find to be normal and satisfactory among the couples they see.
"People who read this will say, 'I last five minutes or my partner lasts 8 minutes,' and say, 'That's OK,'" he said. "They will relax a little bit."
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| ÖZmözis |
| lol, now they figure this out? It's the foreplay thats the best part, the sex is just to finish it off... |
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| Intangible |
3 minutes.... 3 MINUTES?
Please note that it was a MAN who did this research...
this is so biased it hurts
even though i suppose if good foreplay came first, 7-13 minutes would be acceptable. |
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| rabbitjoker |
LOL!
(you need a better subject if people are going to read this thread) |
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| ÖZmözis |
| quote: | Originally posted by Intangible
even though i suppose if good foreplay came first, 7-13 minutes would be acceptable. |
True... |
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| Intangible |
| quote: | the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."
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Best line of the article...
please tell me how much was spent to figure this out?? |
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| Time2Burn |
| I love studies that confirm the obvious. |
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| jsibilin |
| i would say 10 min ,, is the recommended amount of time for intercourse.. now foreplay? that should be at least double the amount of time.. and snuggling should be at the minimum 5 minutes. This is just my opinion.. soo foreplay=20 min, intercourse=15min, snuggle=5min soo 40 minutes isn't bad.. lasting a full hour is great.. but ppl that pride themselves on 4 hour long sex are just crazy.. |
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| ÖZmözis |
| quote: | Originally posted by jsibilin
i would say 10 min ,, is the recommended amount of time for intercourse.. now foreplay? that should be at least double the amount of time.. and snuggling should be at the minimum 5 minutes. This is just my opinion.. soo foreplay=20 min, intercourse=15min, sleep=5hours soo 40 minutes isn't bad.. lasting a full hour is great.. but ppl that pride themselves on 4 hour long sex are just crazy.. |
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| capo tutti di |
| quote: | Originally posted by jsibilin
i would say 10 min ,, is the recommended amount of time for intercourse.. now foreplay? that should be at least double the amount of time.. and snuggling should be at the minimum 5 minutes. This is just my opinion.. soo foreplay=20 min, intercourse=15min, snuggle=5min soo 40 minutes isn't bad.. lasting a full hour is great.. but ppl that pride themselves on 4 hour long sex are just crazy.. |
You totally sound like a virgin...
sex that is planned?? who has sex in beds anymore?? and 4 hrs isn't so hard after a night at guv and a lil substance...totally doable!! |
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| Intangible |
| quote: | Originally posted by jsibilin
but ppl that pride themselves on 4 hour long sex are just crazy.. |
Why?? I mean to last 4 hours every times is just too much. But there's nothing crazy about marathon sex everyone once and awhile. |
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| capo tutti di |
| quote: | Originally posted by ÖZmözis
fixed ;) |
LOL!
man sex after a day at work kills my night my plans usually are ruined...sex at 5 dinner at 10 lol
if i dont sit up and move right after, I'm ko'd! |
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