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It finally happened!! (at the wrong time of course) (pg. 7)
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| Swamper |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
then he told me he is a singer/songwriter and invited me to a gig on saturday. oh and he got my number so he could "call and remind me" lol
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| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
well he gave me his business card that has his myspace link on it. |
IMO, you should've just taken his card and not have given your number. If he was sincerely just promo'ing his gig then a response by you of the type of "Oh awesome, I'll see if my boyfriend is free and we'll try to drop by your gig" would have given you your answer :)
...however, this would turn out doubly funny if you go to the gig and axe is a sponsor. |
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| chach |
| Already planting the seeds of infedility I give your relationship 2 months tops. |
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| Renzo |
your boyfriend and give this guy some head.
Any guy with a douche pickup line like that needs some head. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Cloudburst
I have noticed girls (yes I'm generalizing) have an amazing ability to over analyze situations... :toothless |
guys can be just as bad. sometimes even worse. :p |
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| squirrelly |
I would not have given him my number... Band guys only hope for you to turn out to be a groupie.
I don't like strange people calling me :o |
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| inconspicuous |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
Oh yeah, NSFW. |
this post is soooo nonexistent, plz delete. |
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| wotyzoid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Did you say "elle oh elle" outloud? |
Sometimes I say "L oh ll" out loud. :(
Edit: altogether, "Lohl"... |
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| Dr. DAS |
I wouldn't spray myself with axe if I was trying to put out a shirt-fire.
Seriously, who uses that except high-school boys? |
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| Lunar Phase 7 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
that's exactly why i just played along. it's not my nature to be a conceided bitch (despite what u guys think) so i was nervous that if i said that he could have just been like, "uh i was just inviting you to my gig" and i would have felt like a jackass.
i explained that to my bf too and he was cool about it.
but at the same time, if this ever happens again, i'm not going to give my number out. he caught me off guard but next time i'll just say that i don't hand my number out to guys when i'm invovled with someone. |
For a girl who seemed pretty streetwise and smart it was a stupid move anyway, relationship aside, I bet you wouldn't put your cell phone number down on some random form or something.
Some loser hits on you and you give it out? Your BF may act cool with it, but you still did him a disservice for doing that anyways.
You knew yourself you were getting hit on, but you played along. It's not very cool. A simple "no thanks I am busy" would have sufficed. |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
that's exactly why i just played along. it's not my nature to be a conceided bitch (despite what u guys think) so i was nervous that if i said that he could have just been like, "uh i was just inviting you to my gig" and i would have felt like a jackass.
i explained that to my bf too and he was cool about it.
but at the same time, if this ever happens again, i'm not going to give my number out. he caught me off guard but next time i'll just say that i don't hand my number out to guys when i'm invovled with someone. |
I always just say "I don't think my boyfriend would appreciate me giving out my number to some guy." But then if it was a situation like yours when I am not sure if he is being friendly or not, I would add in "But I could take yours and give you a call when I find out if I can make it."
That way you aren't giving your number, you mentioned the BF without sounding presumptuous, and you're not being a total bitch.
As someone else mentioned, you could also say "I will see if my boyfriend would like to come too!"
Again, not being presumptuous, but it gets the message out there. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| It's also stupid to feel obligated to protect some stranger's feelings. Who gives a if some random supermarket sleazeball thinks you're a bitch? |
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