Originally posted by Frenchie
I don't think it's a mistake. If she can't handle looking at another woman or appreciate another woman then issues are there which shouldn't be.
welcome to the wonderful world of woman ;)
Frenchie
Yeah, I don't like 'em. Don't like 'em one bit.
phyrrus
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Originally posted by Project-K
I'm so glad I never had a girlfriend like that.
thats unfortunate for you, because I've never been happier with a girl before. in fact, judging from how happy and open we've been with each other in this relationship I don't even consider my past girlfriends to be relationships at all. this misunderstanding may be explained by her insecurity but I have the feeling I just wasnt explaining my point clearly, and we were both ed up on wine/whiskey/cheap beer which didnt help. 90% of our arguments happen when we're both drunk.
mezzir
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Originally posted by Frenchie
I don't think it's a mistake. If she can't handle looking at another woman or appreciate another woman then issues are there which shouldn't be.
exactly. my gf knows i look at porn, hell we even have together. not to mention she's an artist and has had guys model for her (who, big surprise, have way better bodies than i do)
meh
zoogla
it's a 2-way street...i don't think it's a matter of you not explaining your point clearly (if you explained to her the same way you explained it above, totally clear imo) but rather that she didn't want to understand your point; she just shut herself off from you because you crossed a line for her that she either doesn't want to or is unable to explain to you. I'd press her to confirm whether she understood you and accepts your explanation happily.
Frenchie
Like Jamie and I said - she's sounds like a typical girlfriend. Probably gets pissy at little things and I'm also willing to bet that your drunken arguments are caused by her or started by her. Arguments are arguments being drunk doesn't justify them. The only thing great about having them when you're drunk is waking up and not remembering them -if you're lucky. She'll always remind you about them though.
Lira
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Originally posted by phyrrus
90% of our arguments happen when we're both drunk.
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Originally posted by Lira
How drunk were you, by the way?
phyrrus
umm well I cant speak for her but I would say I was ed up. I had... I guess 5 shots of whiskey, few cups of wine, half a bottle of champagne. ed up to the point that I would open my mouth and try to explain some half-assed idea without really understanding what I was trying to say.
zoogla
have u revisted this subject while sober?
nchs09
Why dont you just tell her to get back to the kitchen?
