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How to scold a friend that may have feelings for me
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| Lira |
I'm kinda pissed off at a good friend of mine, and there's no ongoing drama in the CORe right now, so I decided to make a little contribution. Here's a brief summary of what happened:
- Said friend phones me and tells she's just entered university. Asks me if I've got some reading material that may be useful for her, and I tell her to wait a couple of months because I was busy at the moment and I wanted to browse my library (and my mum's) so I could see what I could get her;
- After a couple of months, I phone her back and tell her she can pick up the stuff she wanted. As I found out she had just got a boyfriend, I invited both of them over, as I usually do with my friends. She said she couldn't go because she was busy;
- Because she's a good friend, and being someone who likes to share books, I told her she could pick up the most basic stuff in my office, at university. She never did. Whenever we met, she didn't say a word about it, and I just didn't bother because it's not like I'm the one that asked for a favour anyway;
- I now want to throat punch her now for having made me do all that for nothing.
And, I'd probably do that - I'm not usually mad at anyone, but this was bang out of order... and the only reason why I didn't tell her to bugger off is because she's not like that at all. And because her recent behaviour puzzled me.
She seems to have gone bonkers after I told her I got engaged (and that's around the time she got her boyfriend as well, which would mean her feelings would no long be a problem), and I suspected, long before that, that she had feelings for me (hell, even people who didn't know me noticed that), but I decided to simply overlook it because I'm fine with my current relationship, thank you. So, I feel it all may have happened because she's avoiding me. Hopefully, I'm wrong.
But, in case I'm right, how can I scold her without giving her any room to even mention this possibility? I'm not used to arguing with friends, and I don't want to simply forget and forgive because I am irate :mad: |
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| josh rising |
| COR version please? |
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| Ygrene |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
throat punch
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You've known the answer all along. |
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| Alex |
Did you come inside her?
Pics or stfu?
Big bag of dicks?
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| nchs09 |
| So she didnt get some books and you are mad at her? Seriously, how long did it take you to pick out hte books? 5 minuets? |
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ygrene
You've known the answer all along. |
:stongue: |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh rising
COR version please? |
Friend asks for a favour. I do it, she disappears. I'm pissed off, want to vent, but don't want any drama to ensue. |
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| tubularbills |
Looks/sounds like you just kind of lost a friend.
life's hard sometimes :( |
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
So she didnt get some books and you are mad at her? Seriously, how long did it take you to pick out hte books? 5 minuets? |
5 minuets can take longer than you think, depending on who composed them. |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| Nothing screams "I'm Mad At You" like anal |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
Nothing screams "I'm Mad At You" like anal |
What about unwanted anal?
:gsmile: |
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| Lira |
Regarding the PICS/STFU, she's in that pic that made PKC wonder why I'm always swamped by "Young Asian Muff". Go look for it.
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
So she didnt get some books and you are mad at her? Seriously, how long did it take you to pick out hte books? 5 minuets? |
No, I actually browsed my library, got some old books my mum didn't want any longer, and looked for books that could be useful for her and what not.
Being the disorganised person I am, it took far more than 5 minutes, believe me :p |
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