|
Racial preferences...different question though (pg. 3)
|
View this Thread in Original format
| Orbax |
| quote: | | my point exactly...i don't call americans "oxidental" nor do i call asians "oriental" |
either way it doesnt matter bro, its just a broad category. It goes human, earth, oxidental/oriental, north/south, continent, country, state, city...etc...if you want to be specific to the point of country, then thats fine, if you just want to say someone is a westernern or easterner thats fine too.
and the whole skin color thing. It isnt the fact that since people are brown, or black, or white, its what culture they were raised in. Many peoples CULTURES dont mix, and a skin color tends to dominate the culture. Like there arent too many white dudes chillin in north african ceremonial garb and called themselves Umbabageela-shwan. SO when people say black or white, they are referring to the culture that the skin color is typically attributed to. White is hard, because its a little more spread out than most other skin colors. majority of blacks in africa, tans in asia etc. but white in america, canada, scotland, ireland, germany, england, france etc...all with very different cultures. but yeah. I had a point in there some where. I hope you caan find it
example: hard for a rich white suburbanite to really be able to mesh compatibly with a poor, black, inner city, thug woman. Not that one is a right perspective, or a wrong one, but that they just dont mix for the most part. The girl could be very intelligent and one day might be very successful, but things like attitude towards certain subjects, patterns of speech (vernacular), etc.. would make it hard. |
|
|
| Freeza |
| quote: | Originally posted by mr. poopyhead
a lot of us were brought up with the idea that white people are "foreign devils" (gwai-lo). that's just one example. |
I am a foreign devil!!!!! :thepirate |
|
|
| Orbax |
i just had a deep thought!
ok heres a good cultural difference. Asians, but ill say Japanese in particular because I have a lot of experience in that area, have a "success" model. Get good grades, get a good job, get a lot of money, get a good wife, get good kids. Everything is built up to make you successful, and a beautiful wife means you are more successful, or at least successful in that area. All facets of life support the success of yourself (this is for men, I have no idea what japanese women have for goals).
Then there are people like me. I live on the "love" model. Everything is to support the love. Ill work and get some cash if I need it to continue a love-a girl, rock climbing, hiking. But if I end up living like a bum on some beach with only a surf board, my girl friend, and a sunset, ill die a happy man.
I wouldnt be compatible with a success driven person, and a lot of japanese people fall into that category. Not ALL mind you, but it is a definite trend in the culture, and japanese only allow other japanese into that culture...so do you see what im saying? |
|
|
| Juricimo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kirby
it seems like is, white people tend to 'usually' like white people or Asian people... |
i'm mostly attracted to 'white' girls....found myself attracted to asian girls sometimes.....i once dated a mexican girl. she was hot.
>JM< |
|
|
| Photo_bot_2k1 |
meh
its all good |
|
|
| Palivar |
 |
|
|
| enak |
| Well, i am asian and am naturally drawn towards "whites" not to categorise tho, i guess i spend more time around white guys and gurls, oh well race shouldn't be a factor in relationships. |
|
|
| Stanza |
From what I see skin colour goes hand in hand with ethnic culture. When you see ppl of the same race hanging out with each other it's because they share the same culture and can easily relate to each other.
Some ppl might think that this is racism since ppl only hang around their own race and no one else. |
|
|
| thewarpbrothers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stanza
From what I see skin colour goes hand in hand with ethnic culture. When you see ppl of the same race hanging out with each other it's because they share the same culture and can easily relate to each other.
Some ppl might think that this is racism since ppl only hang around their own race and no one else. |
yeah i dig....i find it easier hanging out with asians esp chinese ppl as they just seem more understanding of the same culture and like that......and i'm just attracted to chinese chicks too, like white chicks i find good lookin and all but i don't know why just find asian chicks sexy......oh yeah if u didn't know i'm chinese born in australia |
|
|
| USMC_Greg |
95% of the time I get attracted to white girls. Not very often am I attracted to black girls (no disrespect), but I just find white girls more attractive.
Black girls that I would bang;
Anshanti
Mariah Carey |
|
|
| dj_inferno |
| i don't really care as long as the girls look good... |
|
|
| drizzt81 |
| quote: | Originally posted by AnotherWay83
ppl. would date within their own race...it wasn't actually racist, |
how could it possibly be racist? I mean you want to date/ GF/ wife to fit your 'LIKING'. If you do not like the way asian chicks look, you don't date them. there isn't even a race issue here. I mean you would not date huge fat chicks either, if you like skinny chicks and vice versa.. i mean, bein racist has something to do with discriminating people based on their race.. since EVERYBODY gets disciminated when it comes to dating, racism is impossible...
my 2 cents. |
|
|
|
|
