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Girl friend who has done some "modelling" in the past (pg. 2)
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| Aortik |
| quote: | Originally posted by zag2me
Am I wrong to care about it? |
It won't really do you any favours, having hang-ups like this. I'd assume this is the first time you've come across a cache of old nude photos starring the current object of your affections... it's only natural for you to be afraid, as it's usually so easy for us to ignore the fact that many men have probably been through the territory you are seeking to conquer and many men shall likely conquer it long after you are gone.
I would probably end up asking her why she did it, and if her only reason was money, then eh, that's probably the least concerning of answers. :stongue: |
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| Taranis |
| I don't think it would turn me off hooking up with, or having a friendship/FWB/short term relationship with a chick. It would disqualify her from ever being a serious emotional relationship though. I'm usually pretty easy-going when it comes to chicks pasts (relatively), you can't change where you've come from after all, but knowing that a girl has been in porn and has been jerked off to by millions of guys around the world is probably the limit for me. And I think it also makes a statement of sorts about her personality, which would probably mean I'd cease to view her as the type of girl I'd want as a long term partner. |
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| denys envy |
| i'd worry how many other guys she's shown those pics to before sleeping with them... last year... last month... earlier that day. |
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| Silky Johnson |
You should be bothered by having to ask other people how you should feel about things. I hope this helps.  |
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| Axer |
| This thread sounds like someone needs to borrow rubbers lol |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by zag2me
So I'm sitting there with a girl last night and she gets a bit drunk and starts telling me stuff about her past. Next thing I know she's pulled up an internet page of her nude modelling back in her student days. Toys, open crack shots, the lot. She's really pretty and doesn't seem to have a problem with it at all.
Should I be bothered? |
You neither should nor shouldn't. It's really something that only you can tell, and this is not based on anything that you ought to do. Would you do the same if you were on her shoes? How does her past affect your potential relationship in your opinion? And how come you can't remember the URL?
Personally, I don't think I'd be comfortable with that, although it depends way too much on the context for me to tell what my decision would be. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aortik
It won't really do you any favours, having hang-ups like this. I'd assume this is the first time you've come across a cache of old nude photos starring the current object of your affections... it's only natural for you to be afraid, as it's usually so easy for us to ignore the fact that many men have probably been through the territory you are seeking to conquer and many men shall likely conquer it long after you are gone.
I would probably end up asking her why she did it, and if her only reason was money, then eh, that's probably the least concerning of answers. :stongue: |
stumbling across some nude photos on a computer and having the girl tell you she used to model for a pornographic website are two totally different things.
i think taranis pretty much wrapped it up. /thread |
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| denys envy |
look. if she can handle a dick proper - keep her in some sense (booty call status the likely intelligent choice).
it's hard enough to find a good looking girl that can for as it is. they always get away with not having to learn how to by having a banging body. i hate that . |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Yeah. And at least be glad the modelling didn't involve interracial gang bangs or bukakke. THEN I'd worry. |
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| zag2me |
She told me that she has only ever shown 1 person the pictures and keeps it pretty quiet. I've known her for over a year and had no idea that she had done something like this until last night.
The main reason I ask is I always thought I was pretty liberal with stuff like this but now its actually happened I'm not sure I like the idea. |
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| denys envy |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Yeah. And at least be glad the modelling didn't involve interracial gang bangs or bukakke. THEN I'd worry. |
maybe she shows him THAT website tomorrow. |
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| FallingMoon |
| keep getting her wasted & see WHAT else she tells you...this might only be the beginning my friend. |
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