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| Eugene |
| Pat, as I recall from your posts you thought that that was THE relationship, you were talking about getting married, delaying sex until marriage, etc. etc. So what happened, you just broke up? |
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| torontotrance |
Nothing is wrong
it's just pimping ain't easy! |
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| PatMcGroin |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
Pat, as I recall from your posts you thought that that was THE relationship, you were talking about getting married, delaying sex until marriage, etc. etc. So what happened, you just broke up? |
bastard!! had to bring that up huh? lol...na, what i said was "if" it was to be THE relationship...blah blah....and there was always the chance of us breaking up, if we would have known we would be together forever, then there would have been no problem having sex...but you can never know something like that....so we didn't have sex for that reason....and plus i didn't want to be that guy that ruins it for her husband, because her future husband is getting one hell of a wedding present from her...and thats something to be damn proud of (or atleast i think so)
our previous conversation was just about sex before marriage, and i was just using the relationship i was in at the time as an example, of course it would have been a greater example had it worked out, but the principle in what i was trying to say back then was still the same
na, what happened was this....i'm in europe for the summer, and she had to stay at school, cuz she's a smart girl like that and she's graduating a year early (next year) and then she's joining the air force (for four years)...cuz she's a career woman (job comes before everything else, family and love can wait, blah blah).....so next semester she's taking 18 hours (max), they are all hard ass major classes, she's doing the air force, and all this stuff, and she just doesn't have time for the commitment of a boyfriend, any boyfriend, not just me....she still loves me very much, but for her, her career is more imporant....and plus she's a VERY independent person, so being in a serious relationship was hard as hell for her, and she needs her time to herself now and get all that crap done that she's doing.....so all that played a role in our breakup, but like i said before, it was a good breakup, and we're still friends, no harsh feelings at all, and who knows we might get together again many years from now when its actually possible, of course i can't see the future or anything, none of us can...but for now, it was just the right thing to do |
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| PatMcGroin |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
it's just pimping ain't easy! |
for some reason, when i DON'T try, it all just comes to me, but put me in a pressure situation and i'll crack, no doubt...damn life :p |
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| Nucleogenesis |
there is nothing wrong with you...
keep doing what ur doing.. its life:stongue: |
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| torontotrance |
Many women....you got much time......be patient.....
being single is ok....certain ppl believe it is an evil. From what i'm told, you certainly have more $$$$ in your pocket. |
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| PatMcGroin |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
Many women....you got much time......be patient.....
being single is ok....certain ppl believe it is an evil. From what i'm told, you certainly have more $$$$ in your pocket. |
for now i'm just having fun...its not really possible for me to get into a relationship now, nor am i looking for one, but if one knocks on the door and i'm intrested when its all possible again, i think i'll go for it, but for now its all about fun |
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| miss_e |
| quote: | Originally posted by PatMcGroin
alright, so a little more than 3 weeks ago my g/f and i broke up....we were in love, blah blah blah....i'm over her now, she's over me, it was a good break-up, we're still good friends, blah blah blah
anyway...to the point....i am currently flirting/hitting on THREE different girls all at the same time!! actually there is a fourth too, but i won't count her, cuz we're best friends....but still....i never have done anything like this, its very much unlike me!! its not my nature, and i know its pretty much impossible to be with any of these girls for a whole bunch of reasons, the most important, distance....anyway....why can't i stop??? have any of you ever expericenced the same thing???? what in the world is going on?! |
YOUR LIBIDO IS ON A POWER TRIP....what can i say
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| Endre |
| quote: | Originally posted by PatMcGroin
alright, so a little more than 3 weeks ago my g/f and i broke up....we were in love, blah blah blah....i'm over her now, she's over me, it was a good break-up, we're still good friends, blah blah blah
anyway...to the point....i am currently flirting/hitting on THREE different girls all at the same time!! actually there is a fourth too, but i won't count her, cuz we're best friends....but still....i never have done anything like this, its very much unlike me!! its not my nature, and i know its pretty much impossible to be with any of these girls for a whole bunch of reasons, the most important, distance....anyway....why can't i stop??? have any of you ever expericenced the same thing???? what in the world is going on?!! |
the rules.. just go for it man. |
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| The Lost Dog |
| quote: | Originally posted by PatMcGroin
bastard!! had to bring that up huh? lol...na, what i said was "if" it was to be THE relationship...blah blah....and there was always the chance of us breaking up, if we would have known we would be together forever, then there would have been no problem having sex...but you can never know something like that....so we didn't have sex for that reason....and plus i didn't want to be that guy that ruins it for her husband, because her future husband is getting one hell of a wedding present from her...and thats something to be damn proud of (or atleast i think so)
our previous conversation was just about sex before marriage, and i was just using the relationship i was in at the time as an example, of course it would have been a greater example had it worked out, but the principle in what i was trying to say back then was still the same
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na, what happened was this....i'm in europe for the summer, and she had to stay at school, cuz she's a smart girl like that and she's graduating a year early (next year) and then she's joining the air force (for four years)...cuz she's a career woman (job comes before everything else, family and love can wait, blah blah).....so next semester she's taking 18 hours (max), they are all hard ass major classes, she's doing the air force, and all this stuff, and she just doesn't have time for the commitment of a boyfriend, any boyfriend, not just me....she still loves me very much, but for her, her career is more imporant....and plus she's a VERY independent person, so being in a serious relationship was hard as hell for her, and she needs her time to herself now and get all that crap done that she's doing.....so all that played a role in our breakup, but like i said before, it was a good breakup, and we're still friends, no harsh feelings at all, and who knows we might get together again many years from now when its actually possible, of course i can't see the future or anything, none of us can...but for now, it was just the right thing to |
So, Basically she finished with you because you didn't sleep with her?
Which seems like what the problem is there,
A lil advice for you, - Ya neednt worry about ruining things for other blokes because they sure as hell won't worry about ruining things for you.
For more help and advice email [email protected] |
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| PatMcGroin |
| quote: | Originally posted by The Lost Dog
So, Basically she finished with you because you didn't sleep with her?
Which seems like what the problem is there,
A lil advice for you, - Ya neednt worry about ruining things for other blokes because they sure as hell won't worry about ruining things for you.
For more help and advice email [email protected] |
no no no, the no sex thing, we both wanted it that way
and it wasn't about ruining it for others, it was more about ruining it for her that i didn't want |
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| DJ Mikey Mike |
| quote: | Originally posted by PatMcGroin
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lmao at ur name. I come into Chillout and See Thread started by PatMcGroin
lol
Mike |
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