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Vivid Boy
your girlfriend is soooooooooo getting fingerbanged by some greasey french dude with a berret
elFreak
sleeve of wizard;)
AnotherWay83
well if i were you, i would do her in the bum ASAP. that way she will remember you the whole time she's there and you won't lose her.
tubularbills
you're ed. next.
Vivid Boy
crr-r-r-r-r-r-r-ooooo
lücid
6 months is really not that long at all.
phyrrus
quote:
Originally posted by kiev_42
So yeah, its pretty rare that I post here but I need some advice / past experience from you guys regarding something important thats about to go down in my life -

My girlfriend who ive been with for two years is moving to another country to study abroad for 6 months.. Although were both fairly young (both 22) Im sure that shes "the one". Still, a 6 month separation is a pretty long time, although she will no matter be coming back here to finish her last year of school. Theres been a lot of tension in our relationship recently as the date is soon coming up, and shes spent many nights telling me she doesnt want to loose me (pretty hard conversations to deal with.) anyway, I obviously feel the same way. Still, neither of us have ever delt with anything like this before, and as much as Id want to stay together with her I dont know what to expect.

Advice/ comments?
please be positive, im pretty depressed :confused:


I'm in the exact same boat. mine is leaving for France at the end of August for one year. maybe they can hang out together....

I'll tell you how I'm dealing with it: dont think about it. I certainly dont mean you should be in denial about it, but just realize there's no sense being depressed about something that hasn't happened yet. We've talked about it and decided that we are going to make every day be like the last, but also make every day be like there is no last. it's weird how they are the same. As for our time apart, I'm going to do what I can to get through it, enjoy being single for the first time in a while, maybe hook up with a few girls here and there. She will probably do the same, and that's fine. But when she comes back, and if nothing has changed, that's a pretty damn good indicator that shes the one. No, I'm not worried.
couch-potato
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
your girlfriend is soooooooooo getting fingerbanged by some greasey french dude with a berret


This.

Seriously though, she'll be getting triple-clogged.
echosystm
quote:
Originally posted by kiev_42
Advice/ comments?
please be positive, im pretty depressed :confused:


Ask yourself what kind of girl she is.

-If she's fairly sexually open minded, chances are this won't work.
-If shes too much of a prude, the new experiences will bring the hoebag out of her.
-If she is a well-adjusted chick, this will all be fine.

I know this is a pretty ed thing to say, but keep her on her toes. She needs to know her place and she needs to know you can do better at ANY TIME. The more worried she is about losing you, the less she will think about messing around with other dudes. No one values things they don't have to work for.

Put your on the pedestal, basically.
Rose
quote:
Originally posted by lücid
6 months is really not that long at all.





+1

are you going to be able to talk to her often?

zoogla
even though 6 months isn't long, you're only 22 years old and although it does seem like you have your head on straight, i would recommend that you go on a short "break" and if it's meant to be, she'll come running back to your arms at the end.

best way not to think about it is to not be in that relationship, and focus on yourself and the local hooch. may i recommend smelly smell.
whiskers
quote:
Originally posted by tubularbills
you're ed. next.


, you read my mind. NEXT!
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