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Controversial discussion inside: Theresa beware (pg. 4)
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| elFreak |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea i know you're right. i'm glad i figured that out in my earlier 20s lol |
i'm glad i stopped being a loser:p |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by elFreak
if the guy gets cranky and abusive when he drinks, it means it is in his character.
counseling, fixer uppers are better left for losers like krypton.
why be with someone unless they are everything you want in a person. Life is too short to waste with ing losers that have issues. |
Spot on. |
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| Renzo |
| So we're all in agreement that bitches deserve a good smack to the face then? Good. I'm glad we agree. |
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| elFreak |
i would probably be less judgmental with a younger girl who did not know better yet, but sadly i see more women in their 30's put up with this .
my gf can kick my ass, i can't do this :p
stupid mui thai lessons:( |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Should I close this thread then? No wait, I want to wait for Theresa to come in here and get all uppity first. :gsmile: |
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| Slylee |
| i was with a drunk for almost 3 years. doing coke every weekend helped though lol he got violent with me in the beginning and it was out of nowhere. he would just randomly pick a fight and grab my phone from me and be like, "who the is this" so finally i was like this i'm out, and he begged me to come back and admitted to taking steriods behind my back and basically he was having horrible roid rages. i gave it another shot and he never got that way again. he was still a prick, but in other ways lol |
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| squirrelly |
For one, those of you who are screaming (yukii) that a girl who stays in an abusive relationship is a dumb bitch - until you've been there, shut your goddamn mouth.
An abusive relationship is a touchy subject, but they usually develop over time. A person can be with someone for years before they start showing signs of abuse - and even when they do, it's so gradual you barely notice. A fight that got out of control here, words that were said there, and then *bam* it happens, you get pushed down. You're not really sure if it's an accident or not or what exactly happens and that's where it all starts. Once you're in there and that person starts getting control of your life, it is VERY hard to get out - because before the hitting starts, there's already been a lot of mental abuse.
A girl who gets the beat out of her, ends up in the hospital, and THEN goes back is a ing idiot. One who isn't really sure what's happening is just scared. Once you finally get out of that situation though, one of two things happen - #1 you find an equally as abusive schmuck (which at that point, you are a moron and deserve the beating) or #2 you get a little therapy to get you to understand what happened and then continue on with normal and healthy relationships (hopefully) from that standpoint on.
I do think it is worth mentioning, however, how long that cycle takes to develop and how utterly terrifying it is the day that you wake up and realize what happened. |
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| Renzo |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
An abusive relationship is a touchy subject |
I see what you did there. |
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| yukii |
| i have- enough said. |
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
I do think it is worth mentioning, however, how long that cycle takes to develop and how utterly terrifying it is the day that you wake up and realize what happened. |
And how long did it take you to get to #2? :p
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| squirrelly |
Oh, please. Your reaction would have been quite different if you have so do us all a favor and go suck your boyfriends dick.
And Bas, 5 years. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Renzo
I see what you did there. |
:stongue: :stongue: :stongue:
There's actually a couple that I care for, and I can tell that he's very controlling/emotionally abusive in their relationship. :/ |
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