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manipulative females (pg. 7)
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| trancechan |
| some people want to be doormats. not everyone is a leader, some are happy to be the perfect followers. |
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| Frenchie |
| I don't believe anyone who says they've never played the manipulative role. Even just once. |
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| Lilith |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
manipulative people are just people playing with other people's feelings for selfish reasons |
Most people are metaphorically speaking, lucky to find their own arse with both hands in life and naturally migrate towards people who can lead and the 'manipulated' gets to wash their hands of any personal responsibility. In a sense, both sides win.
One gets exactly what they want
One gets to lazily do nothing
Manipulating people doesn't necessary always have to be a bad thing either, provided no one is getting hurt and everyone is getting what they want out of life, be it the I want crowd and the lazy people who can dump all their personal accountability onto someone else if things balls-up and go wrong.
If I could be bothered reading back through I'm sure there's a river of endless tears from someone getting their arse hurt and blaming 'the leader' of a relationship for all their woes. But the fact is, if they where not so comfortable being the lead in the relationship, then they where obviously, entirely comfortable being dragged through the muck, doing nothing to assert their wants and then crying some more about how the other person led them to despair. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by secked
:cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: |
omg i know who an alt is! finally.... i never know who the the alts are insulting me.
i miss you:( |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lilith
Most people are metaphorically speaking, lucky to find their own arse with both hands in life and naturally migrate towards people who can lead and the 'manipulated' gets to wash their hands of any personal responsibility. In a sense, both sides win.
One gets exactly what they want
One gets to lazily do nothing
Manipulating people doesn't necessary always have to be a bad thing either, provided no one is getting hurt and everyone is getting what they want out of life, be it the I want crowd and the lazy people who can dump all their personal accountability onto someone else if things balls-up and go wrong.
If I could be bothered reading back through I'm sure there's a river of endless tears from someone getting their arse hurt and blaming 'the leader' of a relationship for all their woes. But the fact is, if they where not so comfortable being the lead in the relationship, then they where obviously, entirely comfortable being dragged through the muck, doing nothing to assert their wants and then crying some more about how the other person led them to despair. |
or just blinded by trusting their SO. how foolish of them |
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| Lilith |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
or just blinded by trusting their SO. how foolish of them |
If you're throwing that much trust in someone then you've already made your mind up to follow them 'blindly' without any further decisions of your own. It's not foolish to follow someone that knows what they're doing and has your own interests at heart, but people sometimes screw up and make the wrong choice, deliberately, subconsciously or accidentally.
And they get the 'blame' for doing it.
But by the same account, so is the fool to blame that followed them down that path |
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| Arbiter |
Why all the hate for manipulative females?
I've got something they can manipulate. |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
I don't believe anyone who says they've never played the manipulative role. Even just once. |
+1 |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
I don't believe anyone who says they've never played the manipulative role. Even just once. |
believe! ;) |
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| WittyHandle |
| Insecurity & lack of self-respect. 90% of people's problems imo. |
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| Joss Weatherby |
That girl is a fit as yo... |
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| KiNeTiC ENeRgY |
| As long as these bitches give it up, I could give 2 s otherwise. If a girl won't let u tap it, move along. |
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