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Think you're having a bad day? Think again this is a bad day... (pg. 3)
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| Renzo |
| Any word if IGK was involved? |
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| yukii |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
You're a bit older and hopefully more mature and probably less trusting than a 16 year old who had just been raped would be...
ffs, people, show some compassion. |
lol, im all for having compassion and empathy okay, don't get me wrong. but when i was 16, i never did mistakes like those that i know could risk getting my vagina shredded, that's all. |
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| Echo of Silence |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
Okay the second time yeah that does suck. I'm talking about the first time though. How she voluntarily got in the car. THAT was asking for it. |
Sorry. Rape is never okay. A lot of girls do stupid things. That doesn't mean it's okay to rape them.
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
lol, im all for having compassion and empathy okay, don't get me wrong. but when i was 16, i never did mistakes like those that i know could risk getting my vagina shredded, that's all. |
I'm glad you never did something stupid that resulted in you being raped. If you had, I still wouldn't think you "deserved" it. No girl, no woman deserves it and rape is not a joking thing so sorry if I find your "lol-ing" offensive. |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
Sorry. Rape is never okay. A lot of girls do stupid things. That doesn't mean it's okay to rape them. |
of course it's not okay but she should have known better. Seriously. A strangers pulls up next to you at 2:30am and tells you to get in the car, would you do it? It's not like she's 5 years old and doesn't know any better. |
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| yukii |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
Sorry. Rape is never okay. A lot of girls do stupid things. That doesn't mean it's okay to rape them. |
i agree, rape is NEVER okay. but how could you not think she brought this upon herself? even if i get out of work & its dark- i still ask someone to watch me get into my car or drive me to my spot. it's called taking precautions :/ im assuming the girl never knew what 'rape' was and decided the nice 2:30 am man will drive her home safely wasting his time and gas lol |
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| Echo of Silence |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
of course it's not okay but she should have known better. Seriously. A strangers pulls up next to you at 2:30am and tells you to get in the car, would you do it? It's not like she's 5 years old and doesn't know any better. |
Rose, there is never an excuse.
She shouldn't have gotten in the car with a stranger
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She shouldn't have been alone at night
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She shouldn't have dressed like that
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She shouldn't have such a hot body...
It is never okay. Stupidity is stupidity but rape is never justifiable and is always wrong. |
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| Rose |
| You didn't answer my question though. Would YOU have done it? Probably not. Again, I agree with the fact that it wasn't right. Rape is NEVER okay. But like I said, SHE got in the car. SHE should have know better. Come on. Why didn't she call a friend or her parents to go pick her up? Why did she have to resort getting into a strangers car? What I'm saying is that she could have prevented this and didn't. The second time WAS ed up and unfortunate and it does suck. But I'm talking about the first time. I've been stranded before in Downtown at 3 in the morning drunk and I wasn't stupid enough to get into some strangers car. I called some friends until one of them came to pick me up. |
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| yukii |
| we're not saying rape is deserved or right evar. we just think this specific girl had an extremely low IQ level. poor girl? yes. |
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| yukii |
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hmmmm, should i go in? :) im sure they're nice people with pure intentions :) yeah okay, im going. :) |
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| Echo of Silence |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
You didn't answer my question though. Would YOU have done it? Probably not. Again, I agree with the fact that it wasn't right. Rape is NEVER okay. But like I said, SHE got in the car. SHE should have know better. Come on. Why didn't she call a friend or her parents to go pick her up? Why did she have to resort getting into a strangers car? What I'm saying is that she could have prevented this and didn't. The second time WAS ed up and unfortunate and it does suck. But I'm talking about the first time. I've been stranded before in Downtown at 3 in the morning drunk and I wasn't stupid enough to get into some strangers car. I called some friends until one of them came to pick me up. |
Yeah, but I grew up in a very different world. So I'm not even relevent to this convo.
When you're that age, you often think that you are invincible.
You smoke because you won't get cancer.
You have sex without protection cuz you won't get pregnant.
You have sex without protection cuz you won't get aids.
You would never buy auto insurance if you didn't have to cuz you won't have an accident.
You can drink all night and drive home because you're special, the alcohol doesn't affect you.
You don't need life insurance, you won't die.
So many of us feel invincible until something happens close to home, its part of life experience, I think. |
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| yukii |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
Rape is NEVER okay. But like I said, SHE got in the car. SHE should have know better. Come on. |
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| gazelles |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
It is never okay. Stupidity is stupidity but rape is never justifiable and is always wrong. |
So if someone jumps off a skyscraper by choice and dies on ground impact, you believe that that persons death was unjustifiable? Physics is wrong?
Getting into a stranger's car at night leads to horrible things. Always.
Rape is wrong and terrible but she chose to get in. |
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