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I'm Not Engaged Anymore... (pg. 2)
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| Krypton |
| They don't give a about the kid, but they give a about her moving out. WTF? |
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| TranceOwnsLol |
| I never knew there were so many Filipinos here. :wtf: |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceOwnsLol
I never knew there were so many Filipinos here. :wtf: |
Almost 4 now! |
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| IpLaYWiTLiGhTs |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fledz
You're living with the kid? So you're kind of a guardian for him?
yea, be a father figure. Don't be his big brother, be stricter. His parents don't give a so someone has to. Deal with it now when it relatively harmless or deal with it later when he's 16, lying in a ditch somewhere having withdrawals from too much Ice and meth, as well as having contracted AIDS and Hepatitis earlier on in life. |
I'd have no problem being that figure if I was given permission. I feel doing that though would be a big sign if disrespect to my girlfriend's parents. I really don't approve of what they're doing but I rather keep on good terms with them.
And it's not like I hate the boy...he's just really annoying. In the end I want the best for him. Most of this stuff is common for kids, and being as he's the girlfriend's brother, he's practically family. It's just annoying not being able to do anything. I guess the best thing I can do for now is have my actions be forwarded by the girlfriend.
| quote: | Originally posted by SuspicionVandit
I've heard the things both our families say about each other in terms of "corruption" and all that crap, I'm scared about what will happen when we all have dinner together. |
Haha...our first dinner was hilarious. I have a Chinese/Caucasian background so our families are somewhat different. Both sides of the families have accents also so no one knew what the each other were saying most of the time.
| quote: | Originally posted by Krypton
They don't give a about the kid, but they give a about her moving out. WTF? |
This is probably the biggest part I don't get also. They don't want her moving out so she can help raise the children, but when she tries she gets scoldings for trying to do so. From what she tells me things were a lot different with her and her older siblings. I've never seen her disrespect her parents, never (this is also why I know I have a keeper ;)). Maybe the U.S. culture has rubbed off on them, or they're just burnt out. |
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| trancesept |
| filipinos are the people that are in great numbers yet never really be taken serious of lmao |
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| Banora |
| Just do something to indirectly make the kid fear for his life. Hire a cop friend to "arrest" him and laugh in his face when he's all 'omg HALP'. |
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| TranceOwnsLol |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancesept
filipinos are the people that are in great numbers yet never really be taken serious of lmao |
I think that filipinos are just ashamed to be filipino so they pretend to be from some other country or from the country they immigrated in. So it never looks like there's a lot of them, but there are. :p |
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| DJ Damerchi |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceOwnsLol
I think that filipinos are just ashamed to be filipino so they pretend to be from some other country or from the country they immigrated in. So it never looks like there's a lot of them, but there are. :p |
like overplaying their 1/64 spanish heritage, and thinking they know/are spanish because tagalog uses the same word for "but" as espanol...and you are just like,"errrr, are you really sure you're not adopted?"
However, one of my closest friends from HS is from Quezon City and is damn proud of his heritage. |
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| Moongoose |
| quote: | Originally posted by Banora
Just do something to indirectly make the kid fear for his life. Hire a cop friend to "arrest" him and laugh in his face when he's all 'omg HALP'. |
Best idea yet. If you cant take any obvious steps in controlling the kid try some covert manipulation. Hes 10, he stupid (and obnoxious) and most of all easy to manipulate. Make that work for you until you get married, then ffs get out of that house if you value your sanity. |
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| lacksesepsotygh |
| i had a problem like this before. i got rid of the problem. i killed him. |
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| Rose |
| What the hell does this have to do with you being engaged? |
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