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My pathetic attempt to get my exgirlfriend of 5 years back...love letter... (pg. 2)
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| k.k.d. |
Hmm.. Not to be a party pooper, but have you considered that this girl has perhaps already someone else who loves her and whom she loves? Unfortunatelly, from a realistic point of view, i doubt this "letter tactic" will work, or do your relation any good.. I just want to warn you against the disapointment if all she would say is "sorry, you had this chance"...
Anyway, good luck.. :( |
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| Jah |
hey tiesto 14
sorry about your ex :( about the whole girlfriend thing, im still not over my ex remember all that crap before...still there just like yours is i guess. ahhh well time does make it a little better i guess (been nearly 5 or 6 months now!) but i think its making it worse too because ive totally disconnected from her and have absoloutly no contact whatsover... pretty much been like that too since last talked about it and it first all happened way back... happens eh i even had this perfect perfect perfect girl for a while and i ed things up with her mainly cause at the end of the day im still not over the other one, maximum respect for posting tho dude it really sucks man i know, if you ever wanna chat swing us a pm... |
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| Dj DoomForce |
That was one splendid letter pal,it is always nice to have people write things like that from their heart and post them!
Anyway,my advice: send that letter to the girl,keep your faith and believe in yourself and be prepared for anything, from a call"hi,i just got this letter of yours,we need to talk" or something like that to no response at all..
But have faith in your feelings,believe in yourself and remember that you don't love someone so as to get a response and have your love returned,it won't work and you'll be dissapointed and unhappy, sure thing! So love someone for the sake of love and not for anything else,love him/her because u want to and not because you want them to repay your love (Leo Buscaglia,great man and teacher!)
Anyway that's my advice,take your chance on her again and maybe she'll take her chance on you too!
Best of luck to you out there pal!
Greetz |
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| Emil |
So what happened, did you send the letter?!
Emil |
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| stk |
| wow..very very very very nice poem!..send it..the worst thing u can do is holding in all your feelings, better to express them to the person u love rite? =/ |
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| quddha |
:( sniff sniff... so touching. Lots of time and effort put into that one. I can tell you have very strong feelings for her.
You should run it through a spell check (check your use of the word 'are' vs. 'our' ie. in the second paragraph). Don't want to be careless...
But if she still has any feelings for you, this will definately touch her, regardless if she wants you back or not. good luck with it man. |
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| Palivar |
| Oh the things we go through for the opposite sex. It begins initially with desire, infatuation, sensuality, blissful happiness and the novelty of sublime romantic attachment occurring in a fantasy world where you're both unconcerned with the likely possbility of a future in which the novelty of it all begins to fade away and where the entropic forces of change begin to pull both of you back down from the ideal bubble of bliss and inevitably target both of your likely already problematic lives with the of continually have to face new trials and tribulations and at the same time continually detract from your enjoyment of the good things in your relationship so that from there on it's one battle after another as you both try to deal with all the damn nonsense in your lives and at the same time hold on to the love you'd once held strongly in your idealized fantasy bubble. Unfortunately for many of you things just eventually get too ed up in your relationship and you both get to the point where either of you is looking to cut your losses and get the hell out. |
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| Trancewave |
tiesto14, I know exactly what you are going through. It's been almost 5 years now and I still can't get over my ex. We're still really good friends but it's just isn't the same anymore. I've often thought about writing her a letter as well like we always used to.
I've seen other girls since we parted and no one has ever made me feel the same way she does. :( I realize now what a fool I've been for letting her go and had many chances to get back together.
We had an argument one night and that night I ended up cheating on her with one of my friends. I really thought that was the end of our relationship at the time but she appologized to me and naturally we ended up making up, now I feel like such a jerk and a coward because I didn't have the guts to tell her that I cheated. Even to this day I haven't told her and I've been disgusted with myself ever since. I've been carrying this burden of guilt all this time and I want to tell her so badly but nothing good would come out of it. It would make her world cave in and look at me differently, she's really emotional. But at least it would relieve a lot of my pain for letting her know. I don't know what to do. :( |
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| thewarpbrothers |
| wow i'm actually touched, damn thats some good stuff |
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| randummboy |
| i would reccomend writing it out by hand tho, because a typed letter aint too romantinc.. ya know? |
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| marco.V |
Damn send this letter right now!!!
If i were a girl i would marry you :haha:
Good Luck |
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| Dj DoomForce |
yeah,hand'wrting would be best!
go for it man..if you haven't already!
greetz |
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