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Sex Offenses on the Subways Are Widespread (pg. 2)
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| yankeeBaby |
| quote: | Originally posted by chimera66
attention yes but not to be stared down. there is a difference between noticing someone and appreciating they look good and noticing someone and being sketchy about it. staring at people is rude and makes them uncomfortable. also some things i worn out of comfort, some exercise clothes could be seen as attention seeking but you can't expect people to cover up all the time. |
+1 to that!
Mels: the worst is when dudes on the street do this: "PSSSSSSSSSSSSST! PSSSTTTTT!!! ma! Mami!! PSSSTTTTT!!!"
Like "WTF are you whispering at m*therf*cker??" |
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| AY STAR |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
+1 to that!
Mels: the worst is when dudes on the street do this: "PSSSSSSSSSSSSST! PSSSTTTTT!!! ma! Mami!! PSSSTTTTT!!!"
Like "WTF are you whispering at m*therf*cker??" |
thats so cheeeeesey...atleast say something like
you:"hey miss you dropped something"
her: (looks around) "no i didnt"
me: "yes you did...my jaw, cause your just so beautiful" :toothless :toothless :toothless
nah but i understand what you girls mean, some guys are just straight up creeps and dont understand the word no, i see it all day long
but on the other hand some girls just bring the unwanted attention upon themselves on how they dress...there be some skanky bitches walking around
thankfully i dont have/i dont want a daugther, she would be dressing like a jewish school girl 24/7 if i did |
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| euphoria |
| If the person oogling me is hot then it's acceptable lol but if you try to touch me I will return your hand back to you in pieces. |
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| DJ Eco |
| Some creeper at Pacha stood right next to me as I was dancing with this girl, GRABBED HER ASS for like 10 seconds. She turned around cos she eventually had a feeling it wasn't me... He's like 6 inches from me and I didn't even notice. I shove him, he says sorry and like jogs away, I nailed him in the back of the head with a right hook... |
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| MeLLyMeL |
you know what?? i just hate the thought of guys coming up to me in general - especially at a club.
I'm sorry - what dane cook said is right. I go out with my girls TO DANCE or listen to music. Even if the guy is hot I would always turn him down.
You just need to come up with something better then a "hey mami. PSSSSSSSSSSSSSSST PSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSST PSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSST"
Starring is creepy and invading my space is worse. Thing about NY is foot traffic SUCKS! You can do whatever to TRY and change this but it will never stop(harassment) . |
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| chimera66 |
| quote: | Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
you know what?? i just hate the thought of guys coming up to me in general - especially at a club.
I'm sorry - what dane cook said is right. I go out with my girls TO DANCE or listen to music. Even if the guy is hot I would always turn him down.
You just need to come up with something better then a "hey mami. PSSSSSSSSSSSSSSST PSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSST PSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSST"
Starring is creepy and invading my space is worse. Thing about NY is foot traffic SUCKS! You can do whatever to TRY and change this but it will never stop(harassment) . |
true story i go out to dance, if people want to look and not be sketch about it i'm alright with that but the comments or even worse the unprovoked touching is a huge no-no. although lately at pacha as odd as this sounds, guys have asked to dance which is different and slighly odd since pacha isn't a middle school dance but the comment is much appreciated. |
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| yankeeBaby |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Eco
Some creeper at Pacha stood right next to me as I was dancing with this girl, GRABBED HER ASS for like 10 seconds. She turned around cos she eventually had a feeling it wasn't me... He's like 6 inches from me and I didn't even notice. I shove him, he says sorry and like jogs away, I nailed him in the back of the head with a right hook... |
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I love you marcello. :haha: that is so gangsta. |
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| AY STAR |
| quote: | Originally posted by chimera66
true story i go out to dance, if people want to look and not be sketch about it i'm alright with that but the comments or even worse the unprovoked touching is a huge no-no. |
to comment on this and what mel said about girls just going out to dance
you girls are going to get hit on and touched even more, then if you were by yourself or with another guy
once guys see a group of single women...they will attack
you have been warned, just be safe and keep your eyes open
espeically if a guy offers to buy you a drink...if you do accept
make sure you go to the bar with him and watch him get the drink
some guys will go buy you a drink slip something in it and its a wrap
i see it happen to alot of girls |
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| JPlay |
thats the problem with most girls in ny...i agree that some guys just take it too far, however, that's mostly out of frustration or maybe it worked with other girls.
but i hate those girls that say "i'm just going out to dance with my girls" that's bull, as soon as a guy you like comes over you will start playing games to turn him into you. so i don't believe it. girls want it as much as guys do, they just don't get as much from everyone because the guy is the one who has to make the first move most of the time.
don't get me wrong, if a guy comes over and you blow him off but he continues pressing we have a problem there, however, MOST of the time girls who have blown me off the first time end up hooking up with me by the 2nd or 3rd attempt, it's all about being smooth. at least that's how i see it. i've hit on a group of girls at the club, you know, those that "just go out to dance with their girls" and end up taking one of them home so again, that's bull.
if you wanna just dance then go to a gay club, i have a lot of female friends that do that and no one even pays attention to them.
in any case, i just wanted to share my thoughts because we were discussing this the other day during dinner and again later that night we went out to a club and my friends and i (3 guys) end up getting together with 3 random girls, yet again. u just gotta be smooth and that's it. if a person goes to a public place and doesn't want to socialize with anyone then stay home, we don't need this kind of negativity in today's world thank you! :toothless
sorry for the long post! :haha: |
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| AY STAR |
| quote: | Originally posted by JPlay
thats the problem with most girls in ny...i agree that some guys just take it too far, however, that's mostly out of frustration or maybe it worked with other girls.
but i hate those girls that say "i'm just going out to dance with my girls" that's bull, as soon as a guy you like comes over you will start playing games to turn him into you. so i don't believe it. girls want it as much as guys do, they just don't get as much from everyone because the guy is the one who has to make the first move most of the time.
don't get me wrong, if a guy comes over and you blow him off but he continues pressing we have a problem there, however, MOST of the time girls who have blown me off the first time end up hooking up with me by the 2nd or 3rd attempt, it's all about being smooth. at least that's how i see it. i've hit on a group of girls at the club, you know, those that "just go out to dance with their girls" and end up taking one of them home so again, that's bull.
if you wanna just dance then go to a gay club, i have a lot of female friends that do that and no one even pays attention to them.
in any case, i just wanted to share my thoughts because we were discussing this the other day during dinner and again later that night we went out to a club and my friends and i (3 guys) end up getting together with 3 random girls, yet again. u just gotta be smooth and that's it. if a person goes to a public place and doesn't want to socialize with anyone then stay home, we don't need this kind of negativity in today's world thank you! :toothless
sorry for the long post! :haha: |
you do make some good points |
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| JPlay |
| quote: | Originally posted by AY STAR
you do make some good points |
yea, i mean, it's all about moderation...i play it by feeling them out first, if i approach a girl and she puts me off very abruptly then i have no intentions in even talking to her anymore because she's simply not into me, that's why u have 1000 other girls around you. but if she picks up my game and starts following it then why not, you know? that's all i'm saying.
my dad told me that back in the day everybody knew each other at the club, it was like a family thing and there were so many positive vibrations going on that it was so easy to get together, girls were into, guys were into it, it was like cooking a perfect dinner :haha:
anyway, that's enough outta me. times change so does people. |
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| chimera66 |
| quote: | Originally posted by AY STAR
to comment on this and what mel said about girls just going out to dance
you girls are going to get hit on and touched even more, then if you were by yourself or with another guy
once guys see a group of single women...they will attack
you have been warned, just be safe and keep your eyes open
espeically if a guy offers to buy you a drink...if you do accept
make sure you go to the bar with him and watch him get the drink
some guys will go buy you a drink slip something in it and its a wrap
i see it happen to alot of girls |
you sound like my mom ;)
also, being alone or seeming like you are alone is much worse. |
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