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Do you think this is wrong? (pg. 5)
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Anything that betrays the values and expectations two people have agreed on in a relationship (concerning fidelity) is cheating, imo. |
I agree. I've had people tell me it isn't cheating because nothing physical happened but still, it's the fact that they were planning on it which s with the trust in the relationship.
And yeah you really don't know who anyone is, no matter how long you've known them. People change everyday. |
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| Cloudburst |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea i guess. to be honest, i've seen so many ed up things and lies and and heard stories, i guess i'm just one of those people who isn't surprised by much and i'm realistic about things and people, especially in relationships.
i was just sharing a story in the pothead thread the other day about my ex's college crew. they all lived in minnesota and one in north dakota with wives they dated in college and kids at home and they were in miami doing all kinds of drugs n . i mean they weren't cheating, but still...their wives had no clue what was going on. they only do that like once or twice a year. wmc and vegas.
and that lawyer chick i just told you about was married to that guy for 10 years and they had a son together who was like 8. then you also got these wives whose husbands leave them after 15 years and admit to being gay the whole time.
lol you just never ing know with ANYone. not even your own parents.
but yea i'm the same as you in that i give myself credit for being able to spot . perfect example is my last serious relationship with that guy i discovered was watching teen porn every ing day after class while i was at work. lol NO THANKS. he was the total sweet & innocent type, completely swept me off my feet, i thought i had found a total keeper. from ohio, small town boy, drop dead gorgeous, great family and great relationship with them...
oh yea disclaimer: addicted to porn. :stongue: |
The sleep rape guy? :o |
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| Slylee |
of course...i would honestly feel more betrayed by an "emotional affair" than i would a drunken one nighter with some chick whose name he doesn't even remember.
and no doubt i'd be up and gone for either situation lol |
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| Rose |
| Yeah because the drunken one nighter was most likely not intentional. The talking to someone else while dating someone is. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Cloudburst
The sleep rape guy? :o |
lol yes!
man what a shame. he was great except for all the closet sexual perversions . and the funny part is, I'M the biggest perv ever, he should have shared all of that with me in the beginning and it wouldn't have been a big deal:o |
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| Meat187 |
Lies, people are their true selves when drunk.
*grabs beer* |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
I think that who ever does that clearly has trust issues with their S.O. and probably isn't ready for marriage yet.
Do you guys think it's cheating when you're dating someone and your partner is already talking to someone behind your back? I think it is, in a way. Though they aren't doing anything with this person, they sure are thinking about it. |
Simple rule to follow...Anything you do with someone that you wouldn't do with them if your S.O. is standing beside you is cheating |
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| Slylee |
| one could say it's just a matter of observation to his reactions to real life scenerios that very well might happen down the road. |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by Meat187
Lies, people are their true selves when drunk.
*grabs beer* |
Lol. Big lie. Maybe for men. |
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| Meat187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
Lol. Big lie. Maybe for men. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
Lol. Big lie. Maybe for men, but they are scum ;) |
Ninja edit fail!
And you're right, for women it's not drunk but being high on weed. |
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| Rose |
God damn you all ruining my ninja edits lately. DAMN YOU ALL :mad:
and no hun, I've never cheated :D |
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| Meat187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
I've never cheated :D |
Everybody does it!
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