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Weddings make me miserable
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| Lira |
The tree I just came back from the wedding of an old friend of mine, and I feel emotionally drained. This is not the first time it happens: I used to think it had something to do with churches and whatnot, but that also happens in non-religious ceremonies (like the one I attended today).
The worst I've ever had was back in 2005: One of my best friends got married in São Paulo, and I was one of the groomsmen. After the ceremony was over, I remember I sat on a bench and spent two hours straight looking at a tree on the top of a mountain, while everyone else was dancing at the party. I remember I felt ridiculously empty, and it was the first time I had ever been to a wedding on my own.
Anyone else get that? |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I remember I sat on a bench and spent two hours straight looking at a tree on the top of a mountain, while everyone else was dancing at the party. |
no, can't say i've ever been there before dude lol |
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| Rose |
Someone's got the blues...
And no, sorry. |
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| Sushipunk |
| Yeah man, I hate weddings. The only good thing is the open bar, which I always take full advantage of, since otherwise I'd probably go mental. |
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| Domesticated |
| Sounds like celibacy is really working out for you. |
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| bananas |
| Have yet to attend one, but I think with all the girls and booze around I wouldn't feel too sad:D |
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| Lews |
| Xanax makes everything good :) |
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| WittyHandle |
Are you just introverted and therefore uncomfortable in large groups, especially ones where you don't know many people, or is it just weddings?
I generally dislike weddings just because they're usually all the same, and I can't understand why anyone would spend so much money on such a bad party for what is supposed to be the happiest day of their life. The few that are unique are fun though. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Domesticated
Sounds like celibacy is really working out for you. |
Heh? That was the first wedding I've ever been to after my fiancée left :conf: |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Yeah I hate weddings...very draining for sure. Can't say they leave me feeling empty, though. |
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| yukii |
| Instead of sitting on that bench why didn't you go dance or socialize with friends or something? if you're gona sit on a bench you might as well leave? :conf: i think weddings are nice, religious/nonreligious.. everyone seems to be happy atm. |
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| Rose |
| The only people I know who hate weddings are people who secretly want to find that *one* person and are envious of the people getting married or they really do hate the happiness brought upon by the wedding. |
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