27 is very young. You'll feel old when a really hot babe calls you 'sir'. =/ :P
Lamenting the loss of youth is a really pointless exercise. Live your life and be productive. When you're 60, you may look back wistfully and say "I wish I could go back 30 years and do things differently", but dwelling on regrets is poisonous to your well-being.
Silky Johnson
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Originally posted by AnotherWay83
i'm a retard so i dont, thats my problem. i feel like i just never grew up.
You should keep a journal. Re-reading and reflecting on your choices and experiences will help you figure it out.
EricB.
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Originally posted by AnotherWay83
knock on wood, work is fine, i like my job and have never had career or work problems. its all the other stuff i'm worried abt - having some close friends i can count on, doing things that are fun yet meaningful, having a respectable dating life, etc. etc.
girls come and go dont fret on it. friends tend to consume less time as you get older and take on other responsibilities so they dont matter either. you make new friends as you do new things. you meet new people, have new relationships when you take on new responsibilities and do try out new things.
it doesnt sound like growing up is the problem, and getting old. i think your problem is feeling bored (i could be totally wrong) my advice either way is to start doing new things. join sports teams you always wanted to play, join clubs, do activities, TRAVEL...travelling is probably one of the most fulfilling things and the easiest way to meet new people and new girls. try it out.
butterfly
i think you need to find a girl. i think it will fill it up that sense of emptiness for you. you can be happy doing nothing all the time when you are with someone you love.
my hobby is snowboarding, and exercise (lots of cross training). i need to be fit so i don't get my ass kicked in the winter when we are hiking up the mountain with snowboards on our backs.
djhaziel
27 is a good age you have some experience in life , you are in that age range were you don't look too young or too old to be doing a lot of activities . Pretty much your posibilities are endless at this moment.
kadomony
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Originally posted by AnotherWay83
i'm a retard
Ian
It hits us all. grey hairs in the beard, receeding hairline, laughter lines. And that was all by 17 :haha:
Honestly, i've grown up tons since I first joined this place, I was only 19 when I began and iv'e met some great people and some retards over that time. I have more of an idea what i'm heading for in life and what my limitations are and have accepted myself much more so as a person which helps. Just remember that whatever we do with ourselves, we're always going to be younger than neo & swamper :D
Meat187
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Originally posted by Ian
Just remember that whatever we do with ourselves, we're always going to be younger than neo & swamper :D
And Ygrene, and Sushi... god, I feel great!! :D
djhaziel
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Originally posted by Meat187
And Ygrene, and Sushi... god, I feel great!! :D
sushi is 40 right? :toothless
Ian
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Originally posted by djhaziel
sushi is 40 right? :toothless
nah, sushi is gone off, so much that he stinks of fish :p
/pre-emptive ashes strike
but yeah. there's always older, balder, fatter, thinner, more annoying people around. And most of them are probably jealous of us for something.... I hope :stongue:
