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So there is this guy I've been going out with...
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| chlola |
...for about a year, strictly as friends.
He takes me to cool spots, theater, concerts, art shows,cruises, ect.
From the get go I let him know straight out it was just a 'buddy thing'. First of all I work with him, second of all he does not float my boat...
So as much as I have enjoyed the various outings it has got to the point where he is making my physically ill. As we are leaving a venue he gets all 'grabby' aka touchy feely and wants to put his arm around my waist or hold my hand.
I have told him once before I don't feel comfortable with him touching me but it's gotten to the point where he must have 'forgot' as the minute I get in his car he starts trying to massage my back, rub my arm ect. . . .
So should I just tell him to OFF and suffer his anger at the job or just partially pimp myself out for a free ride?:) |
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| kadomony |
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| Lews |
| quote: | Originally posted by kadomony
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HOLY :wtf: |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by kadomony
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:wtf: :nervous: |
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| You should lead him on until the time is right. what time? rape time. |
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| chlola |
| How am I leading him on? |
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| LAdazeNYnights |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lews
HOLY :wtf: |
holy indeed . i would myself.
and to the OP- tell him again, be more clear. say it in the same fashion you said it here. if it still doesn't stop then, yes, tell him to off.
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start hanging with him much less frequently. he'll probably get the point. |
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| chlola |
| quote: | Originally posted by LAdazeNYnights
holy indeed . i would myself.
and to the OP- tell him again, be more clear. say it in the same fashion you said it here. if it still doesn't stop then, yes, tell him to off.
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start hanging with him much less frequently. he'll probably get the point. |
That's what I've been doing.
Plus cancelled on him a few times.
But last night he tells me he had concert/Dj tickets for the next
5 months planned out.
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by kadomony
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This is why I love the COR |
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| Esiotrat |
| How about you just stop hanging out with him? |
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| chlola |
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
Rape time! |
I find this disturbing, coupled with your sig.:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: |
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