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one of those if you can go back in time moments.. (pg. 4)
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| Moral Hazard |
| When I dumped an ex-girlfriend many years ago I told her "I'm too good for you and I deserve better." In retrospect I regret not being harsher. |
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| couch-potato |
send her a vulgar text
misspell words for emphasis |
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| Ania_xox |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
When I dumped an ex-girlfriend many years ago I told her "I'm too good for you and I deserve better." In retrospect I regret not being harsher. |
How would you make this harsher?
With more stabbing words or by like choking her while you said it?
Or maybe blowing in her face as the words tumble out of your mouth vehemently. Then tell her you ed her sister. |
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| couch-potato |
| oh look another post by ania about sexual degradation |
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| Ania_xox |
| It's funny if your eyes are closed |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ania_xox
How would you make this harsher?
With more stabbing words or by like choking her while you said it?
Or maybe blowing in her face as the words tumble out of your mouth vehemently. Then tell her you ed her sister. |
I don't know how I would have made it harsher, but I should have. |
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| OkiDokie |
| quote: | Originally posted by d_Verge
Ten years later, with the help of facebook, I contacted her, took her out, got her drunk, and ed the out of her for two days straight. When she was finally able to walk again, I kicked that bitch out of my apartment and never called her again.
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Props man |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I don't know how I would have made it harsher, but I should have. |
I don't know. If it's who I think it is then I think she will never forget you. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
I don't know. If it's who I think it is then I think she will never forget you. |
Certainly here husband won't... if he's learned to read anyway. |
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| Esiotrat |
I don't have any regrets as I embrace all my -ups and view them as valuable lessons in life. I wouldn't learn anything otherwise.
Nothing is lost if a lesson is learned.
Amen. |
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| Lira |
You know what, I regret my mistakes at least once a month.
I learn quite a lot revisiting my errors and analysing each and everyone of my major cock-ups. Why did I do that? What would've happened if I did otherwise? What hindered my judgement back then and how can I change it? Why do I feel sad about it? Such and such...
I don't know why people seem to think regret (or, for that matter, sadness) is an inherently bad thing. It can be constructive as well as destructive, you just need to know how to cope with it. |
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| Esiotrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
You know what, I regret my mistakes at least once a month.
I learn quite a lot revisiting my errors and analysing each and everyone of my major cock-ups. Why did I do that? What would've happened if I did otherwise? What hindered my judgement back then and how can I change it? Why do I feel sad about it? Such and such... |
I do that too, immediately after said cock-up. I take what I can from it and move along. No use dwelling over it 2 - 3 years later, like some people.. *cough* LoveHate.
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I don't know why people seem to think regret (or, for that matter, sadness) is an inherently bad thing. It can be constructive as well as destructive, you just need to know how to cope with it. |
It's not a bad thing. There is nothing more natural than feeling sadness or nostalgia. But as you said, you need to know how to cope with it and learn from it.. they're supposed to be constructive experiences. Sadly a lot of people have defeatist attitudes and dwell on regret, thus making it destructive, which is bad juju all around. |
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