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Guys who bring their girls to parties...
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| Evmac |
Ok after going to Pete Tong last Sat I came to realize that something really bothers me. This is what i hate...
I am dancing away enjoying the tunes and a girl happens to walk in front, or beside me and start dancing. Ok whatever, i probably take a glance over to see whats going on but LOW AND BEHOLD here comes the boyfriend or toy or whatever running over and grabbing her like he had just found a hundred dollar bill and then getting in between us like i am trying to hit on her or something.
i hate this, if you are so overprotective of your girlfriend DONT BRING HER! Not everyone is out to steal her from you!
This gets so damn annoying, and if it has happened to you you know what i mean.
anyways
thats my 2 cents... |
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| mucka |
I take my girlfriend to clubs and parties all the time, but i don't care where shes dancin or who shes dancin with coz i'm normally in my own world listenin and dancing to the in music! the reason why we go to these places init? and i know my woman would never stray...one thing for sure she is the best person to go clubbin with outta all my friends coz she is the only one who loves trance as much as me and she dances allnite and we also both drop pills together which is awesome if ya with someone ya love and trust!
laterz;)
! I'm so excited 3 and half dayz to gatecrasher!!!!! |
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I have had the same thing happen to me so I know exactly how you feel but you have to realize that not everyone is as respectful as you or me. I've asked myself so many times "Do guys honestly think they'll get girls by pinching their asses or yelling dirty remarks at them?"
Who knows what is going through these guys minds when they do this stupid . Bottom line is that next time you go out with your g/f and some guy pinches her ass or something you will stop giving everyone the benefit of the doubt when they look at her. |
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| Evmac |
| yeah i wish there were more guys like you mucka |
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| Sugarbean |
Good topic!!
All i know is i could not go nor have a boyfriend at a party with me if i had to worry bout him getting all worked up if i want to dance with someone else. I am there for the music, and dancing makes me happy. If i see someone for whom I want to dance with... im going to dance with that person reguardless...All because i love to dance, just as much as i love trance...and to me dancing with different people enhances a feeling of where you are...creates memories if its a good experience, and you become a better dancer i think when subjected to the styles of those whom you probably dont know..all the better i think.
so really, a party is all about the music, the dance and the people....emotions such as jelousy...should be left somewhere else ((and really if your jelous then its by some lack of self trust and insecurities bout ya relationship)) or else u cant fully understand and enjoy the experience of whats before you! |
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| mucka |
| quote: | Originally posted by Evmac
yeah i wish there were more guys like you mucka |
nice one! thanks bro;) |
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| JM |
taking your girl/guy to a party is like taking sand to the beach....hehe, just don't do it....:)
>JM< |
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| theeyesofdarkness |
| damn. that sucks. if a guy or girl even gets jealous in a situation like that i just wouldnt bring them. damn. talk about a good way for someone not to have a good time. jealousy is such a waste of emotion. we cant help having it but we should be able to control what we do about it. let our common sense tell us how to act not the emotion. peace! |
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| Lilith |
"let our common sense tell us how to act not the emotion"
Considering how many people get intoxicated of out of it at parties somehow I dont think the last idea, (despite its well intended virtue) is going to work. |
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| Gekhous |
cant blame the guys who get protective, hell, i would too :)
what i dont like is a girl flirting with me, and when ur planning to make a move, SHE TURNES OUT TO HAVE A BF!!!! that!!!! |
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| Swamper |
My friends & I have gotten in trouble before at parties... we tear up the floor and then gals start noticing... the guys they're with don't like this attention so they just give you a dirty look and drag their girl away ;)
Actually once on a regular club night I was dancin like crazy for a group of girls and then one of em went off and bought me some water (it wasn't even at a rave) ... I was SO impressed by that..it was cool..no attitude :D
I've brought my girl to some clubs... Whenever I'd go to the washroom I'd come back and some dude would be hitting on her.. heh.. no worries... I don't get anal about stuff like that -- as far as I'm concerned it just reaffirms the fact that the gal I'm with is worthy of attention.. if I was in their shoes I'd do the same thing...
I just hate the super over-protective freaks who think that if you're talking to their gf you might steal them..
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| Henkie_henk |
When you are so over protective you probably havent got a good relationship... or you are a ..
LoL when i take a girl (or my gf) to a party.. We just dance really closely etc.. No interference (only losers who bump into you when walking by.. damn i hate these people, or tap your shoulder: "may i pass" AAHHH) But when i get something to drink.. and some guy is talking to her... So what?? Its not like she goes home with him? You can just say sorry to the guy and start dancing with her again.. I dont see the point.. Why are these over protective guys so anal??
P.S. pinching her ass is a different thing.. i think the guy will get a nice glass in his face (only when he is like really small lol) Nah im a bit more chilled but i sure dont like it.. and the girls hate it 2.. Me dont likez the harassement stuff. |
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