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Depressed (pg. 2)
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Teknikol
"General discussion area... talk about what's on your mind"
What is on my mind?
Well, I like a girl very much but she already has a boyfriend..
How do you empty your mind cos I can't stop thinkin' bout her
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Do you know what hurts even more? When that girl says "I love you (as a friend)". I was in the very same situation. There's this girl I fancy and when I got to know her, I found out that she had a bf. I chose for a relationship then, instead of leaving (she's too cool to be ignored). We became very good friends indeed. However, one day, we (and some mates) were talking and, out of the blue she said "I love you". I replied "I love you too", but she said "No, I'm not kidding - I do, you're a good person, it's nice to have a friend like you". I know she doesn't fancy me, I'm not stupid, but... I don't know, I'm depressed too (because of several other reasons... including this one here).
Not even trance is cheering me up anymore :( All always wanted someone to say it to me, but not like that... I'm happy she likes me that much, but it's like there's something missing deep inside.
Love is strange: it can take you too heaven, but you might go to hell as well. |
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| a-aplz |
| I love you Maaz. :D |
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| Endre |
| quote: | Originally posted by Teknikol
"General discussion area... talk about what's on your mind"
What is on my mind?
Well, I like a girl very much but she already has a boyfriend..
How do you empty your mind cos I can't stop thinkin' bout her
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steal her heart fool!
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| caroline |
| quote: | Originally posted by zzleeper
I was like u like u in May.. it was pretty hard, but i survived. Althought it still hurts now..
Probably the best thing u can do is try to get over it.. it will hurt like hell but eventually you will accept things.
[BTW, i m not 100% sure of what i m saying] |
Ya,Ya, Sure you do...you're just going thru the healing process...doing a good job & you aren't even noticing it...As for you and Teknikol- just hang in there....attractions come and go like water thru your hands....the day will come when that "ONE" person comes along, where you won't even think about these petty situations, except how to make her/him happy as well as yourself. ;) |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Teknikol
It's a friendship right now...
But when I talk to her it seems that my mind only gets more f*cked up
And want to stay in contact in case the relationship with the other guy ends.. |
been there done that...
I was once after this hot girl who was really friendly to me but said she has a bf, so i played it cool thinkin maybe ill get a chance. The next thing i know she's magically doesnt have a bf and has secretly been seeing my friend. One month later they tied the knot, so i was pissed. Come to find out i heard what she's like to live with high maintaince, spends money like water, and is minipulative. So in the end I was happy i didnt get her and felt sorry for my friend cause he's stuck with her 4 the rest of his days.
so my advice is dont waste ur time on a maybe cause most likely you'll end up as the chump...errr i mean "friend".
[BTW, i m 99.9% sure of what i m saying] |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by a-aplz
I love you Maaz. :D |
hehe, I love you too, a-aplz :D
God, why did I open my mouth? :rolleyes: |
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| a-aplz |
Awww :crazy:
Will you go out with me? :p |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by a-aplz
Awww :crazy:
Will you go out with me? :p |
Sure, pick you up at 8:00, kay? :p :D
All right, how lame was what I had said in my first post? |
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| drizzt81 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Teknikol
"General discussion area... talk about what's on your mind"
What is on my mind?
Well, I like a girl very much but she already has a boyfriend..
How do you empty your mind cos I can't stop thinkin' bout her
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get working on something else...
ALWAYS works.. do something that fulfills you. You will forget her quickly |
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| zzleeper |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
Do you know what hurts even more? When that girl says "I love you (as a friend)". I was in the very same situation. There's this girl I fancy and when I got to know her, I found out that she had a bf. I chose for a relationship then, instead of leaving (she's too cool to be ignored). We became very good friends indeed. However, one day, we (and some mates) were talking and, out of the blue she said "I love you". I replied "I love you too", but she said "No, I'm not kidding - I do, you're a good person, it's nice to have a friend like you". I know she doesn't fancy me, I'm not stupid, but... I don't know, I'm depressed too (because of several other reasons... including this one here).
Not even trance is cheering me up anymore :( All always wanted someone to say it to me, but not like that... I'm happy she likes me that much, but it's like there's something missing deep inside.
Love is strange: it can take you too heaven, but you might go to hell as well. |
Damn, u actually stole my words.. something very very similar has happened (is happening) with me...
I guess i m too much of a "nice guy" to attract her romanticaly (damn that stupid word) so she only loves me as a friend. |
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| Mikrop |
Dude... u gotta just keep movin...
Try livin the 3 F's for a bit (Find em... em... Forget em...)
It worked for me... and it still is... nothing like being single |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mikrop
Dude... u gotta just keep movin...
Try livin the 3 F's for a bit (Find em... em... Forget em...)
It worked for me... and it still is... nothing like being single |
This is like eating a pizza with no sauce: it's ok to have it if you're hungry, but it'll never be as good as the real thing :)
Hey, teknikol, if we never taste sorrow, we won't know how special happiness is :D |
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