pkc is just bitter he gets cheated on all the time
Sushipunk
Is that you again, darkarbiter?
pkcRAISTLIN
did we ban darkarbiter for his excessively homosexual youtube video?
well done TA.
lostpsyte
no
Sushipunk
Lol, I forgot about the video.
Darkarbiter wasn't banned, he just wanted to make a new account.
pkcRAISTLIN
i dont blame him. what a mincing poofter.
Lira
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Originally posted by WittyHandle
Right, but isn't that the point of posting fake threads like this?
Yes, precisely!
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Originally posted by lostpsyte
pkc is just bitter he gets cheated on all the time
EarnYourKeep
the cor now contains topics for debate
seriously what is this ?
more lulz less typing
zyklon-jay
how is it cheating if you don't even know if she is committed to you and banging other guys? getting it in once is not a relationship. what a ing maroon you are.
AnotherWay83
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Originally posted by zyklon-jay
how is it cheating if you don't even know if she is committed to you and banging other guys? getting it in once is not a relationship. what a ing maroon you are.
i addressed this in my OP. what if you guys are (hypothetically) in a committed relationship that has just begun, but she has far more options (romance/sex wise) than you ever would? would you pre-emptively cheat in that scenario? that's what i'm trying to find out.
drEamer
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Originally posted by AnotherWay83
this is something that's been consuming me lately and your thoughts on the matter are appreciated.
so.
has anyone here ever pondered cheating pre-emptively on someone they've just started seeing? you know, because a) you don't know if it's gonna last or how long, and b) you don't know if she's dating other guys or is being exclusive, yet you're too afraid to ask lest you betray your insecurities.
my thoughts -
if she's even halfway decent looking, it's just a matter of time before she takes a fancy to one of the gazillion guys that hits on her everyday, so it almost seems prudent to cheat on her the first chance you get. that way when the inevitable comes around, you won't feel like such a chump.
now before you claim that it's debatable in the first place whether any cheating will have occurred considering no serious discussion has been had on the matter of exlusivity (being so early and all in the "relationship"), let's extend the hypothetical a bit to the case where you've just gotten serious, ie, "legit". still, she's a cute chic livin in a big city and you're just some guy, one of however many that would give his left nut to have her him on a whim. which is why i still think that pre-emptive cheating is the way to go, for the person with lesser firepower in such an arrangement.
its not cheating if there is no exclusivity......and if u arent sure if u are exclusive, then its not cheating, cuz u didnt know u were supposed to be faithful
Lira
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Originally posted by AnotherWay83
i addressed this in my OP. what if you guys are (hypothetically) in a committed relationship that has just begun, but she has far more options (romance/sex wise) than you ever would? would you pre-emptively cheat in that scenario? that's what i'm trying to find out.
Then it means she's really fit and you're sabotaging your way out of a possibly awesome relationship... which would be great for her so she could be with someone that's worth her time. Simple as that.
