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| Looney4Clooney |
| You've probably noticed i'm being a little bitch lately. Girlfriend needs more, i can't give more, and wondering if anyone has ever managed to make this work. Is it better to just work less, and be more balanced. I honestly dont' require the attention she needs so for me, i'm happy but she is starting to like burn dinners and . Should i hire a temp ? make the time and be more balanced albeit less productive, wait till she is 30 and undesireable by society then start being a douche. She is kinda spoiled, knows she's good looking and well, she feels she has the power. How do i make her feel less assured. Like how would you lower her self esteem so i can basically do what i'm doing now and she is delighted. |
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| Richard Butler |
| HMusic took over too many hours - lead to wife and I going to counselling. Less hours put in now, but I'm cool with it. Always think what will you want to look back on when your'e 75. Balanced loving life wins. |
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| Julz |
| Ignore her and give her even less time. Show her how good she had it. |
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| jayxthekoolest |
| You have to choose what matters most to you and do that. If you want to do everything, things tend not to work out. |
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| jayxthekoolest |
| quote: | Originally posted by Julz
Ignore her and give her even less time. Show her how good she had it. |
IDK, hot chicks get anything they want. She'll probably just be able to find an older, richer guy. |
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| Looney4Clooney |
| but those hours are kinda what i need to do to get where i want to be. like should i just take 2 mnutes every 4 hours and call her and say like whatcha thinkin about. I mean i'm spectecular in every way except i don't have that much time but all my spare time goes to her. And let her do stuff most boyfriends would not be cool with. The thing is she is kinda an ego centric man eater that like wear stupid shoes that are way too expensive and is talking about plastic surgery. She is a singer and although she is the only person I can talk to for a while, well things are getting a little more how do you say, well she started exercising. That is like when the nazis started their air force. IT only means one thing. |
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| Julz |
| quote: | Originally posted by jayxthekoolest
IDK, hot chicks get anything they want. She'll probably just be able to find an older, richer guy. |
Then why waste your time with a shallow bitch???
Honestly women, especially hot ones love when you treat them like everyone else or worse.
Because they are so used to being worshiped all day everyday. |
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| Looney4Clooney |
| quote: | Originally posted by jayxthekoolest
IDK, hot chicks get anything they want. She'll probably just be able to find an older, richer guy. |
older and richer sure but i mean you don't find good looking funny successful artists that can you like the a republican anywhere really. I mean I would say i would score higher but i do love her. So it isn't a question of that, i would say i'm just as much a catch. Is this like that phase where i just let her have a gangbang and htings are cool ?
she isn't that shallow. She pretends. She thinks she some ing cast member from gossip girl. lol But she isn't shallow. Insecure i htink like most musicians. And she also hasn't had that many partners and altough i tell her she is getting the best, she things maybe i'm lying. |
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| jayxthekoolest |
| quote: | Originally posted by Looney4Clooney
but those hours are kinda what i need to do to get where i want to be. like should i just take 2 mnutes every 4 hours and call her and say like whatcha thinkin about. I mean i'm spectecular in every way except i don't have that much time but all my spare time goes to her. And let her do stuff most boyfriends would not be cool with. The thing is she is kinda an ego centric man eater that like wear stupid shoes that are way too expensive and is talking about plastic surgery. She is a singer and although she is the only person I can talk to for a while, well things are getting a little more how do you say, well she started exercising. That is like when the nazis started their air force. IT only means one thing. |
If you have a goal of where you want to be, and you want to do something great, well, then you really have to either comment to that goal fully (i.e. 100% of your free time) or you have to decide if you want a relationship more. Like look at Adele, she has to give up professional music for 6 years in order to have a relationship. I mean, I think that's just the way the world works.
Anyways, worth considering:
http://ramonthomas.com/2007/10/crai...ciating-assets/ |
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| Looney4Clooney |
ah addele
that girl should not have a career. HOnestly , you can find someone that can sing like that in every ing city at some karaoke bar. She really pisses me off. She is not good looking enough or talented to do what she does. Ya i ing can't stand that girl. Who the let her into the waiting room. |
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| meriter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Looney4Clooney
ego centric man eater that like wear stupid shoes that are way too expensive and is talking about plastic surgery. She is a singer |
sounds like a dream come true, better lock that down |
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