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Does true love wait?
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| Maaz |
How important do you think virginity is?
What do you think about sex without love?
Do you think it's possible for someone to resist that long? |
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| Arbiter |
Virginity is a concept so devoid of practical application that one wonders why a spot in the dictionary has been reserved for it.
Sex is not really a big deal, it's just something two people do together for mutual enjoyment. The people who treat it like something more are probably the people who are bitter because they don't get enough.
Yes it's possible for someone to resist that long, but I don't see why on Earth they would want to? What is there to gain?
But anyway, those are just my opinions...
Cheers,
Arbiter |
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| torontotrance |
Yes TRUE LOVE DOES WAIT
let's see....21 yrs and counting for me..... |
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| Mail Man |
1)How important do you think virginity is?: its not really that big a deal loosing it.
2)What do you think about sex without love?: Doesnt bother me.
3)Do you think it's possible for someone to resist that long?: if they feel stronly about it, yes. |
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| Xer |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
Yes TRUE LOVE DOES WAIT
let's see....21 yrs and counting for me..... |
Man,I thought I was the only one.
Tell me,is i t normal not to have even 1 girlfriend,I'm 19 now.
Still virgin,still waiting for true love... |
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| Swamper |
| Denying yourself sexual gratification solely to conform to dated social ideals will only bring you regret in the end. |
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| DJRavemonkey |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
Denying yourself sexual gratification solely to conform to dated social ideals will only bring you regret in the end. |
Well i totally disagree with u swamp. ur saying both that tru love doesnt exist and that saving urself for the right person will only leave u with regret. In my eyes both these statements are a generalisation and a poor one at that. |
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| DJ Mikey Mike |
How important do you think virginity is?
No big deal. You no when ur ready for sex. As long as u take certain precautions then go for it :)
What do you think about sex without love?
well.. at the end of the day, if you only have sex with someone you love your gonna be missing out on a hell of a lot of sex.
Do you think it's possible for someone to resist that long?
No. Sex is sex. You gotta do what ya gotta do. Otherwise ur gonna be masterbating when u could be sharing sexual pleasures with someone else. |
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| DJPrototypeX |
How important do you think virginity is?
-=[for some people its everythin...for others its a thing of the past:p...for me?...i thought it was important...thankfully my girlfriend was a virgin and so was i...lol...
What do you think about sex without love?
-=[shouldnt be done...should love the person u doin with it...i dont think it has the same 'effect' if your not in love with the person...but then again...its up to the person...haha...i kno i love my girlfriend...so yea...haha...
Do you think it's possible for someone to resist that long?
-=[it is possible...:: points at torontotrance ::...LMAo...i said to myself i was gonna wait till i was married...but oh well that flew out of the window...lol...but there are people who can and will wait... |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xer
Man,I thought I was the only one.
Tell me,is i t normal not to have even 1 girlfriend,I'm 19 now.
Still virgin,still waiting for true love... |
Of course it's normal, mate! (though I felt weird about it till I read this thread :D )
I mean, I've already had girlfriends (though my longest relationship lasted for 2 weeks :rolleyes: ), but I'm a virgin. Actually, I ended my last relationship because the girl wanted to have sex, but I declined: I didn't feel she was the right person for me... :p Most of those who know about it want to kick my arse, because she was trully hot, as if that's all we need to do it :mad: Sex is the best thing you can share with someone, don't waste it with people who'll just be with you for a while... :toocool:
Is this wait worth it? Well, it sure was for my first kiss, for example :tongue2
PS.: I know people who never had girlfriends and are 19 too, don't worry :) Ah, I'm 19 as well ;) |
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| Arbiter |
Let me just elaborate on what I was saying previously.
The only value of your virginity is that which you voluntarily choose to give it yourself. However, since you gain nothing by choosing to give it value, I cannot see why you would make that choice. You are making a sacrifice with no reward, it would seem. |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
You are making a sacrifice with no reward, it would seem. |
It's not really a sacrifice, that's all about values and what it means to you.
As I've said before, I'd rather keep it for someone really special to me - I'll enjoy this moment a lot better, because that's not something I do with everyone, and she'll realise that she's not just one more girl in my life. |
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