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To fap or not to fap? (pg. 4)
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| LoveHate |
| quote: | Originally posted by AlphaStarred
Have you ever actually gone on a dry spell? It's quite the contrary for me. My first dry spell was one week. That 7th day I went to a strip club with an acquaintance and I had great self control and my confidence and self-esteem were at its highest, as far as I recall. Instead of ogling the girls or asking for a lap dance, I sat there quite composed, very comfortable with myself, and had several hot girls approach me just to talk to me, hardly even offering a lap dance. Not to toot my own horn, but I noticed they felt quite comfortable around me, some of them sharing their life stories with me, and why they were doing what they did. I felt like I was the man, and I ended up taking one of those girls home with me that night. |
how much did you leave at the night stand for her ? :stongue: |
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| AlphaStarred |
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
uh, he thinks not wanking is "spiritual" and brings him closer to god.
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Yes, this is just a part of what I feel, not to mention everything else I wrote. Are you saying the way I feel is "wrong?" And btw, I equate appreciating the world and nature more as bringing me closer to G-d (whether or not it's truly so). It has nothing to do it religion, and I don't understand where you find the humor in that.
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and links a whole bunch of mormon resources for mental illness.
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Maybe two of the links are rather dubious (I apologize for this), but the link with numerous testimonials clearly shows I'm not the only one who's experienced the positive effects of steering clear of porn and masturbation. I can tell you personally that I was much more creative in my art and music when I wasn't masturbating and watching porn, as opposed to when I was. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by AlphaStarred
Not to toot my own horn, but I noticed they felt quite comfortable around me, some of them sharing their life stories with me, and why they were doing what they did. I felt like I was the man, and I ended up taking one of those girls home with me that night. |
Bahahaha, you stupid fool. Clearly you don't know any strippers personally. :stongue: :stongue:
And you are obviously very inexperienced in the ways of women. :stongue: :stongue: |
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| Desiderata |
| quote: | Originally posted by AlphaStarred
It has a lot to do with spirituality, feeling closer to G-d, and appreciating the beauty of the world more. I noticed that the more I go without masturbating, the more I'm able to appreciate the various nuances of everyday life, not to mention nature. If I spill seed, not only do I feel fatigued and unmotivated for a while, but I also feel deprived of something very essential, and the world begins to look more lackluster. Have you never experienced something like this?
I also feel more confident around girls when I don't masturbate. I feel stronger, and more confident in myself as a human being. I feel like I have nothing to hide, whereas if I masturbated, I sometimes feel like a girl can actually notice whether a guy has masturbated or not by the kind of energy they exude. At least I felt so with myself. It's not for nothing that you build testosterone when you don't ejaculate. |
The way you feel after masturbating probably has to do more with what you think about when your masturbating than the act itself. |
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| djnitride |
I think excessive fapping can be bad definitely for motivation and self confidence, but I don't feel like completely stopping is healthy either. Unless you are getting laid on a regular basis its going from one extreme to another.
Probably best done in moderation. |
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| Desiderata |
| quote: | Originally posted by AlphaStarred
Have you ever actually gone on a dry spell? It's quite the contrary for me. My first dry spell was one week. That 7th day I went to a strip club with an acquaintance and I had great self control and my confidence and self-esteem were at its highest, as far as I recall. Instead of ogling the girls or asking for a lap dance, I sat there quite composed, very comfortable with myself, and had several hot girls approach me just to talk to me, hardly even offering a lap dance. Not to toot my own horn, but I noticed they felt quite comfortable around me, some of them sharing their life stories with me, and why they were doing what they did. I felt like I was the man, and I ended up taking one of those girls home with me that night. |
You kind of have a reverse mentality to this issue. Masturbation makes you feel like you're missing out on the beautiful things in life but on the other hand, taking home a strange stripper on a whim is just fine with you. |
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| Desiderata |
| quote: | Originally posted by Silky Johnson
Bahahaha, you stupid fool. Clearly you don't know any strippers personally. :stongue: :stongue:
And you are obviously very inexperienced in the ways of women. :stongue: :stongue: |
I know. First it was masturbation goes against my spirituality but by the way I took home a stripper because I didn't wack it that night.:crazy: |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
uh, he thinks not wanking is "spiritual" and brings him closer to god. and links a whole bunch of mormon resources for mental illness. |
As long as he thinks spirituality is related to self-restraint, rather than imposing values on others, then why not? |
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| He can do whatever he likes. Just as i can call him a cretin if i want to. |
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| Desiderata |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
As long as he thinks spirituality is related to self-restraint, rather than imposing values on others, then why not? |
That's a good point Lira but he showed no self-restraint when it came to the (supposedly) stripper he had a one night stand with. :haha: |
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| KilldaDJ |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Desiderata
That's a good point Lira but he showed no self-restraint when it came to the (supposedly) stripper he had a one night stand with. :haha: |
I'm not sure what his beliefs are, but apparently pecker-location matters. Maybe he can't pick his own pecker, but he can let his pecker peck packs of not exactly impeccable pinks, because his God doesn't approve of spunk wasting punks :p
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
He can do whatever he likes. Just as i can call him a cretin if i want to. |
Which makes me wonder, did you pick this word at random, or do you actually know the origin of the word cretin? :p |
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