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girl problem-professional help needed (pg. 2)
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| davinox |
you never know what chicks are thinkin'. they are complex creatures and unlike guys, they bite their tounge.
i think she probably likes some other guy alot, and likes you a little bit. thats what it sounds like to me. |
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| Linx_da_cat |
the thing is she basically no the first time you told her and then she said yes when you asked her again.
my thoughts are that her first answer was genuine and the 2nd one was more of a make you feel better so you don't hate her kind of answer. |
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| Technaut |
get her drunk and try your luck :p
you just never know ;) |
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| u4ea:[soulstar] |
I"ve learnt that, sometimes, the girl never says what exactly they mean. There's an internal dialogue a girl has with herself about feelings about the uh other guy. A girl who's become uncertain won't necessary give you a straight answer based on 'the' dialogue. So it's your job to bring that 'dialogue' out in the open. it's a positive way to keep the communication open. if you don't do it, you'll be sucking your thumbs.
I hate sucking thumbs. :haha: |
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| Maaz |
Been there, done that - but in my case, it was a bit more strange. When I was going to tell her about everything, she disappeared from my life (it wasn't her fault though). So, when she got back (one year later) all my feelings arose again and I talked to her. She was totally confused, specially because when I met her, her best friend was in love with me and dated me for a week :D
Anyway, after 3 months trying to get her, some other girl appeared in my life. Then, after breaking up with this new girl, she seemed to be interested on me, but I didn't want to hear "no" then I didn't try. We remained best friends for about 6 months, and then she left again...
Mate, she was the greatest girl I've ever met :p
| quote: | Originally posted by Technaut
get her drunk and try your luck :p
you just never know ;) |
hehe, best advice so far :D |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
Been there, done that - but in my case, it was a bit more strange. When I was going to tell her about everything, she disappeared from my life (it wasn't her fault though). So, when she got back (one year later) all my feelings arose again and I talked to her. She was totally confused, specially because when I met her, her best friend was in love with me and dated me for a week :D
Anyway, after 3 months trying to get her, some other girl appeared in my life. Then, after breaking up with this new girl, she seemed to be interested on me, but I didn't want to hear "no" then I didn't try. We remained best friends for about 6 months, and then she left again...
Mate, she was the greatest girl I've ever met :p
hehe, best advice so far :D |
i just hate it when they disappear....has happened too many times |
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| musicaddict |
hey thanks everyone for replying..you guys gave some good advice..thanks for everything TAs!
well i just got my answer. She has no feelings for me what so ever and there is no chance of us making it. Im just so ing down right now. Lifes a bitch...IM sorry for sounding like this but I'm really down right now. I mean I actually hear it from her good this time..Im out. |
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| TrancerbianMan |
| why does it have to be so damn hard?!? :mad: |
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| butterfly |
no, men will never understand women but i am kinda stuck on the opposite side of this situation currently. a guy i hang out with a lot likes me and i don't feel the same way. he finally told me last night (though i've known about this for a while) and i told him i am not interested but i value him as a friend (which is true).
if he had asked me if he had a chance with me i wouldn't have known what to say - the way i feel now, the answer would probably be no because i just don't have those feelings for him but i don't know that i would even give him an answer because i would be afraid that turning him down would kill our friendship.
my point is, maybe your girl said maybe because she really does just want to be friends. it sucks for both sides when you don't feel the same way but you have to make the best of it. time may be the answer but you have to let it go if she doesn't feel the same way. and don't dig to deep trying to figure out why because it might be an answer that she doesn't want to tell you because it might hurt you even more.
then again, maybe my opinion is a little biased on my own situation. |
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| DeeDee |
| ...ive used that "not now, maybe in the future" line before...poor guys that actually believe it |
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| musicaddict |
| I cant think straight right now. It's just too hard to avoid this feeling I have inside right now. I think I'll be ending up doing something stupid. It's too hard for me to take her image off my mind. Even though were still friends no matter what but I cant seem to accept that reality. I need some soul searching.:( |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by DeeDee
...ive used that "not now, maybe in the future" line before...poor guys that actually believe it |
was poor BTG one of those retards?? |
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