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Having kids. (pg. 4)
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| Dykes_on_Jay |
| You should like totally have a kid with her. |
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| Guest |
| quote: | Originally posted by planetaryplayer
i think she broke up with me like 8-10x the past few months (most break ups lasted like 2 days lol and have been on her period...) |
Umm, not to be an , but is she emotionally stable? Not sure someone who is would do stuff like this. Or do you just mean fights. |
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| planetaryplayer |
tbh im not sure if she is. maybe a few have been fights but they genuinely feel like breakups. I've set my self where i would feel okay if we split for good, and found happiness within my self so it doesn't stress me so much. i still enjoy her when things are good but it seems the longer we stay together the more evident our morals and views are vastly different.
and she is highly emotional and self centred. also if u ever see me at any show in toronto you will notice she is NEVER there |
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| geroin |
| def want to have kids but not really sure when at this point. I feel like it's better to be mentally prepared for it than financially, the rest will figure itself out and if you have no money you will work 3 jobs if you have to. |
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| Guest |
| quote: | Originally posted by planetaryplayer
tbh im not sure if she is. maybe a few have been fights but they genuinely feel like breakups. I've set my self where i would feel okay if we split for good, and found happiness within my self so it doesn't stress me so much. i still enjoy her when things are good but it seems the longer we stay together the more evident our morals and views are vastly different.
and she is highly emotional and self centred. also if u ever see me at any show in toronto you will notice she is NEVER there |
Well, as someone who has dated people who aren't remotely interested in the house music atmosphere, I understand that aspect.
But I have made a habit to stay away from very high-strung and flip-floppy relationships. Not much growth can be had and I always end up being disappointed. I never feel good, even during the good moments, as it's almost like I am walking on eggshells when I'm around them. But that's my personality. Sorry if I'm butting my head in where I shouldn't be mate.
I've just done a lot of self-realization and deep thinking this past month and I've changed my outlook significantly. |
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| planetaryplayer |
eh, its not butting if i posted it lol.
yea the past year i changed my outlook on things completely, focusing more on my self and what makes me happy and to not expect others to make me happy. IE preparing an 8h pre drink set for JOHN DIGWEED (sadly he isn't coming) |
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| Guest |
| quote: | Originally posted by planetaryplayer
eh, its not butting if i posted it lol.
yea the past year i changed my outlook on things completely, focusing more on my self and what makes me happy and to not expect others to make me happy. IE preparing an 8h pre drink set for JOHN DIGWEED (sadly he isn't coming) |
:stongue: How are you going to be alive for the actual party :wtf:
Tell her to go to Digweed with you and have fun or else you aren't going down on her anymore. If she's as crazy as she sounds it might actually work |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay
All of that is inconsequential |
Hahah, totally disagree for reasons already stated. |
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| djshire |
| Nope, I don't have the patience for them, I hate them, and I love money too much. |
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| Dykes_on_Jay |
| They actually don't cost too much. I have a new appreciation for titties. |
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| enydo |
| Don't you have a nanny? I get it's China, but still. |
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| Dykes_on_Jay |
800 bucks a month plus costs. I don't need one (yes I do), but at that price....
I pay more for things like diapers, formula, and toiletries than back home. If money is what holds you back from having a kid, you need to elevate yourself from gypsy status.
It isn't expensive. It will be later for sure once education comes into to the mix, but yeah, it costs less than a meth habit. |
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