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Girl asks if i like slim girls. Whats a good answer? (pg. 4)
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| Silky Johnson |
| Ugh god, chronic insecurity is repulsive. |
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| Dykes_on_Jay |
| quote: | Originally posted by Silky Johnson
Ugh god, chronic insecurity is repulsive. |
for women.
for guys it is the key to manipulating girls to do things they don't really want to. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Insecure people are just so ing draining and awful to be around. right off, parasites. |
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| OrangestO |
To have that strong of a stance, you must be insecure yourself. Parasites? Wtf.
I dealt with insecurity for a long time - still do, sometimes. Some of it has to do with having a father who was constantly on my ass about growing up and verbally degrading me. I've learned that a lot of it also has to do with being an introvert in an extrovert's world (thanks to Susan Cain's awesome book on it). |
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| Silky Johnson |
Actually no, can't say I've ever had any problems with self worth. I did, however, have a really insecure and needy friend growing up. Always with the negative self talk, asking if she looked fat, slept with guys for approval, etc etc. I never felt that way about myself and could never really relate to her because of all her stupid bull. She was negative, and a drain, and she always tried to bring me down to her level. I stopped hanging out with her after grade 9, thank .
It's funny because my father always tried to tell me she wasn't really my friend, and I never understood that until my 20s when I was able to look back on our "friendship", unattached to it.
Truthfully, I would say that is a large reason why I never really had a lot of girl friends in my youth. Most of them were like my fat friend, and I just did not relate to that at all. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Insecure people by their very nature, yes, are parasites. I cannot stand people who are always seeking approval/validation from others - energy sucking parasites. Who wants to be around that all the time?? It is such a massive ing downer. |
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| OrangestO |
I know all about the negative self talk. I dealt with it for a long time. Never being able to take compliments, feeling like I'm not good enough, etc. It's a ing crippling thing.
And I totally agree, being around people like that is draining. I was told numerous times growing up that I was a draining person to be around and had no earthly clue why. It becomes a part of you. And again, there's a reason behind it.
I'm just happy to have finally broken free from it. Well, maybe not fully, but I'm definitely headed in the right direction. Reading books and applying some of this stuff is magic. Mindfulness!!! |
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| Dykes_on_Jay |
Parasites are sucking creatures. Sounds like a plan Stan.
Insecure women like champions.
Don't date them, but by all means, them. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay
Parasites are sucking creatures. Sounds like a plan Stan.
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lol
BUT, DO YOU LIKE ME? DOES THIS MAKE YOU LIKE MEEEEEEE??? *takes load on face* |
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| Silky Johnson |
I have a hilarious story about that fat friend though...
We were hanging out with this guy she liked at the time, and a group of us headed out to another friend's boathouse/dock to hang one night. When we arrived, she was already making out with this guy in the back seat so we all just sorta left them there. Not too long after she comes walking towards the dock, alone, and as she gets really close to me I see she has a HUGE wad of cum on the lapel of her jacket.
That was the first time, aside from the time in grade 8 when she ed some guy from another school but didn't have a condom so used saran wrap, that I was truly disgusted by her.
Hilarious though, lol. in slut. |
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| OrangestO |
| Insecurity must work differently for girls and guys, lol. |
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| Dykes_on_Jay |
| quote: | Originally posted by Silky Johnson
lol
BUT, DO YOU LIKE ME? DOES THIS MAKE YOU LIKE MEEEEEEE??? *takes load on face* |
No, but I'll keep doing it until I find a winner. |
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