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Sexual Assault, #MeToo, and protecting friends from themselves (pg. 2)
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| AlphaStarred |
| Fair points. Hopefully she didn't get pregnant. I'm slightly curious though, did she leave him with blue balls or did he actually bust a nut? |
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| Ted Promo |
| We need a graph of proportionality regarding the percentage of nut bustery. |
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| ziptnf |
| quote: | Originally posted by Scoops
Can you post a pic of this girl.....? |
Oh this is great too. I literally had made fun of her to a group chat between me, Dave, and another friend because of the makeup she was wearing in a Facebook post THAT EVENING. Then Dave goes and barebacks her. :stongue:
Looking like Heath Ledger or some . Casket ready.
* removed picture for reasons - she looked hideous in the pic though * |
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| Jon_Snow |
^—- wow if the Joker had a wife
| quote: | Originally posted by Scoops
Can you post a pic of this girl.....? |
The cor never lets me down :stongue: |
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| ziptnf |
| I'm not really sure about his nut bustery. I'm sure I will find out on Friday. Regardless of her looks or the status of his ejaculate, what he did was still wrong and I'd like to know how he can right his ship. |
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| AlphaStarred |
| Ask him if she took it up the poop chute, as well. |
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| wotyzoid |
| Dave sounds like me in 3-5 years minus the raw dogging and the programming cushioning. |
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| MSZ |
| You didn't even high-five him? |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by ziptnf
Was his act sexual assault? |
It's called stealthing, and it depends on the legislation of the state you live in, I guess. It is a crime in Wisconsin, New York, and California. And, yeah, it's a "trend", apparently, and one that has been described as sexual assault quite frequently.
| quote: | Originally posted by ziptnf
Where can Dave try to improve his life? |
The main question is... Does he want to improve his life? He could just want to get rid of this problem (even if he genuinely regrets it) and keep partying.
I'd think of Dave as a friend who's dealing with a DUI. Some people use the opportunity to take a long hard look at themselves and sort it out. Some others, however, may blame the circumstances, only to make a similar mistake again and again. I've seen drunk drivers nearly lose their lives and vow never to touch a beer again, only to make the same mistakes down the road.
If he realises he "stepped on the ball", as we say in Portuguese, and he needs to get his act together, I'd recommend telling him he needs professional help. That's what they're for. You sound like a great friend, Nick, and you can be there for him, but you can only do so much. You can't deal with his demons on your own, and there's always the possibility he'll turn against you if you try to help him out.
If, however, he thinks it's a one off, and it won't happen again even if he doesn't change his lifestyle, what can you do? That's the path he chose when he ditched Karen, and I'm afraid there would be nothing for you to do other than hope for the best.
Either way, I'm really sorry to hear that :( |
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| Jon_Snow |
I came up with a nick name for your friend...
RAW DAWG |
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| wotyzoid |
No that name is taken, I am the original Raw Dawg. And you're gay IGK, and probably
a pedophile. |
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