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Need an outlet to bitch for a while and i want others opnion of this stuff
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| Laun17 |
it all started about a month ago, my pos car died again (it's becomming a monthly thing now) and so i was to drive my moms mini van to school and around and stuff. well that was all fine and good untill about two weeks ago when i wasn't paying attention to the road for a second (i was in with the radio) and then BAMM i hit an other car, and a telephone pole, not that serious, but enough to up my moms van. so the only car that my fam has is my dads car. and their is no chance in hell of hime letting me drive that. so since i have no way to get into school they have me spend the night at my friends house in town (he goes to the same school as me) and then for the weekend i sleep at my gf's house, a good thing. but then when i come homeafter school the next monday, my last day of classes, i help my dad out in the yard and . then this weekend was the KY Derby festival mini marathon, and my dad wanted me and my gf to do it with him and motivate him to do it as well, so we do, and i tried to get him to push himself, but he just got behind, so we didn't see him for a big part of that, but finished quite well, so when i came home on sunday night both of my parents were bitching at me and stuff on how i don't care about the fam and stuff like that. then yesterday night i spent the night at my gf's again because i had an english paper to turn in today. and then my dad gave me about my grades and how i don't try and that i need to get a better job, because he doesn't think that $8.50 is good enough money to get paied in the summer, and then he also told me that i don't care about the fam or them or anything but my self. and i still haven't gotten my car back yet because the car shop is worthless.
i can see where they are comming from somewhat, but they always push me to do more, and i am at my limit and it is turning into too much, what in the hell should i do? please help me before i go mad.
Johnny :-) |
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| Henkie_henk |
LoL dude.. parents always think they got their together.. they know things better.. well most of the times they are right..
But sometimes they 2 have a tie day.. or are in a crappy situation.. they can keep it for themselves but there is no way you wont get flamed for that... Its just how it is.. Iself normally get into a fight with my parents (pretty funny actually)
Either way dont dont "solve" your problems the american way : by shooting everyone..
Just let them chill.. try to have a real conversation with them where everyone is treated as an adult.. and explain all the things.. and say you do get good grades etc etc.. and that you dont like being called careless about your familie etc etc let them look at things from your side and look at things from their side.. and remember the first thing i said about them being in problems or something like that |
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| IbAmbient |
| henkie is right when he says to sit down and hold a mature and sensible conversation w/ them. If you want to be treated like an adult then YOU let them know what's up and how you feel. Don't get aggressive or anything, just be calm and collective and tell them how you really feel. I'm sure everything will work out...peace. |
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| Laun17 |
Thanks alot guys i actually talked to them last night and stuff is better now, thanks for the suggestions.
Johnny :-) |
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