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Effective Babe Chasing (pg. 4)
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| Endlesswave |
| It's all about being yourself and NOT opening up completely right off the bat with the girl. Being mysterious is key, I mean the girl will get bored if she knows everything about you right away. It's about getting her attention and keeping it. I'm working on all of that stuff and just being me and hopefully it'll work out. (Thing is the girl's friends are constantly telling her to stay away from me, soley because she met me over the net :rolleyes:) Sooner or later she'll give in and I will keep talking to her as a friend (at the same time I refuse to wait around forever though). |
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| irish_4_you |
Regardless of who she is...there should never been any waiting around. If she knows that you are waiting, then you will keep waiting. Cause now she knows she has the collar on you. Never wait.
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| decode |
| quote: | Originally posted by fr0st
yep, 50% is better than 0.....this a tried and proven method.... But in reality i never get a chance to meet girls anymore cept 2 times a week and thats when i work downtown...other than that i have deemed myself a music nerd i spend all my free time working in logic and programing synths not to mention guitar and piano...and going to college or trainspotting tracklist(which im just about out of, i may switch genres just to hear new music.) Oh and now i got a puppy which i gotta watch all the time too.
don't let her cute looks fool you she lives to tear up.... |
Thats a very attractive dog :) |
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| decode |
| The best bait to use to catch any girl is too show her your credit card! |
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| davinox |
i dont chase "babes"
be yourself and be nice and funny to girls and you will find a cute sweet girl that will treat you right! |
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| davinox |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
(Thing is the girl's friends are constantly telling her to stay away from me, soley because she met me over the net :rolleyes:) |
I think you have to see a girl and spend a little time with her before you start cyber-romancing. because who knows, you need to know if the chemistry is there. |
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| DJ Chrono |
Some tips:
if she's hot:
when both of you have locked eye contact, don't look away until she does. This shows you're not intimidated by her looks etc. I've actually tested this and it's interesting, they'll keep looking for quite some time before breaking eye contact!
Mirroring:
copy their moves and match them. it psychologically shows that you are interested. also match their tone of voice, volume level, energy, and if you're good match their breathing pattern.
Trance words:
get into a conversation with her, get her to describe how she feels about certain things. pay close attention to the words that she uses. When you talk to her be she to use these "trance words" cause she'll be able to relate to them |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by davinox
I think you have to see a girl and spend a little time with her before you start cyber-romancing. because who knows, you need to know if the chemistry is there. |
Of course. She wants to as well but she doesn't want to offend her friends because she is VERY close to them (she was even at one point defending me against what they were saying). |
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| SgtFoo |
I'm gonna speak from a few harsh truths (Children beware of the following) and say the following......:
[and when I say this, it's not my full opinion, just a few clarifiers that float in the back of my mind about women]
-most girls are very superficial... if you're not good looking at first, and you don't approach, there's no chance.... if you're good looking and don't approach, they MAY come to you.
-the only exceptions are the intellectual ones...not the smart and academic ones, the "intellectual" ones.
-most all females want the same thing...sex...usually more than men...the difference is, they don't usually know what they want, thus we men must let them know what they want.
-some girls, however put emotional crap in the way, which in the end leaves them with no sex either, so they lose out too.:D
-Monogamy in my opinion is not possible due to science.... since it's in our deep human-animal nature to pro-create.... the pleasure from it is only a very noticeable by-product that we men seek.... it's nature's way of telling us to make babies. If one female won't let us do the act of mating often enough...we feel the need to move on to other women to satisfy this inevitable need. Remember...marriage is a society-created thing, over time.
Sure this is quite "controvertial" and I may sound like a sex-deprived psycho.... but put it to mind and think about the logic and truth.
By the way: I do have a girl and a healthy sex-life.:D :eek: ;) |
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| SgtFoo |
| quote: | Originally posted by davinox
i dont chase "babes"
be yourself and be nice and funny to girls and you will find a cute sweet girl that will treat you right! |
this is also a good tip....i agree. |
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| dark_tenshi |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Chrono
Some tips:
if she's hot:
when both of you have locked eye contact, don't look away until she does. This shows you're not intimidated by her looks etc. I've actually tested this and it's interesting, they'll keep looking for quite some time before breaking eye contact!
Mirroring:
copy their moves and match them. it psychologically shows that you are interested. also match their tone of voice, volume level, energy, and if you're good match their breathing pattern.
Trance words:
get into a conversation with her, get her to describe how she feels about certain things. pay close attention to the words that she uses. When you talk to her be she to use these "trance words" cause she'll be able to relate to them |
Very good tips. Just be confident, don't be shy, and keep a comfortable environment going. |
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| undertensecond |
| how about grabbing the gal? |
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