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Which is worse. . . . your mate kissing or having sex with someone else??
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| Busy Child |
Well before you quickly respond, think about this. My gf told me that she'd much rather me have sex with another girl rather than kiss another girl because she says kissing is much more intimate than ing.
Either way, if i did either one, id get the boot. *snicker* |
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| Dj_Psygnosis |
I think having sex is worse cause your actually making the wider and making it looser so it changes her appearance in a way..
BUT kissing is just *smooch* and your off...no harm done..
BUT both is considered cheating. |
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| montie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Busy Child
Well before you quickly respond, think about this. My gf told me that she'd much rather me have sex with another girl rather than kiss another girl because she says kissing is much more intimate than ing.
Either way, if i did either one, id get the boot. *snicker* |
It really doesn't matter what sexual act you engage in with another person, thats all for the satisfaction of physical desires, what really matters is the feelings and emotional attatchment you feel to that other person and whether that feeling is stronger than what you feel for your girlfriend. And also whether you care about your girlfriend emotionally or that the overbearing reason you are with her is for physical pleasure. |
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| Trancewave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Busy Child
Well before you quickly respond, think about this. My gf told me that she'd much rather me have sex with another girl rather than kiss another girl because she says kissing is much more intimate than ing.
Either way, if i did either one, id get the boot. *snicker* |
OMG!!:eek: :eek: I can't believe you actually brought this up. I totally understand what your gf meant.
This may sound really really weird but here goes.............I cheated on my ex gf once (and this was someone I was really attached to and really loved too :( ) We got into a disagreement one time which got me really upset. I decided that night that I was gonna break up with her. Anyways, I had a friend with me there that day and she knew how upset I was. I knew that she'd always had a crush on me and she'd always made really strong advances towards me which I've always shut her out everytime (she knew about my gf), but this time I guess I was vulnerable :rolleyes: and I didn't reject her advances.
We ended up screwing each other that night, but here's the weird part...........I couldn't find it in me to actually kiss her. :conf:
I felt really really guilty about what I was doing and I just couldn't kiss her :conf: :conf: She'd be like WTF?????? do you realize what we're doing is 1000 times worse than kissing??? She was so pissed LOL :haha: :haha:
But at the time the only thing that was going through my head was that I didn't feel any intimacy towards her and that it was just sex. Does that make any sense to you (?) Because it sure didn't make any sense to me at the time. I just found it very difficult to kiss her, maybe it had a lot to do with my guilt. The reason I gave her was that she was blowing me at the time and I didn't want to snowball...LOL!!!! :haha: :haha:
Maybe that's something to think about. The situation is a little bit different but maybe your gf would rather you just sleep with someone which doesn't mean anything than you actually having feelings for that person maybe? |
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| beema |
putting aside the issue of wether your "mate" has feelings for the person they are doing that with (because that brings in a wholeee nother issue)...
Even though kissing might be more intimate and emotional and such, in some respects, I would be much more hurt by them having sex with someone else.
I mean, if it were some deep prolonged passionate kissing, I would be quite angry and upset about that for sure, but I would still prefer it over them being ed.
there is just something about it...I cant explain...much worse
Think of it this way, if you had a daughter, what would you rather some guy do to her?? I know it is a different type of relationship, but some of the same principles applie because it is someone you love and care about. |
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| IronDragon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Busy Child
Well before you quickly respond, think about this. My gf told me that she'd much rather me have sex with another girl rather than kiss another girl because she says kissing is much more intimate than ing.
Either way, if i did either one, id get the boot. *snicker* |
Whoa, I want your girlfriend. |
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| DCaff |
| busy child, who is that girl in your pic? |
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| E\/AN AL|\/|AE |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trancewave
The reason I gave her was that she was blowing me at the time and I didn't want to snowball...LOL!!!! :haha: :haha: |
ING LAUGHING MY MOTHERIN ASS OFF!!! I think all of us guys can relate to that one. They always want to kiss afterwards, I make them brush their teeth. One of my buddies has a special toothbrush for his chicks to use afterwards. I find that comment farking hilarious.
peace,
Steve |
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| Busy Child |
| quote: | Originally posted by DCaff
busy child, who is that girl in your pic? |
dj eskimo aka, my gf
i think girls see it differently compared to guys. With girls, i guess maybe they think kissing is something more intimate and passionate whereas ing is just ing. . . .unless of course, youre making love and i guess that itself is a whole new topic. |
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| JM |
well if it comes down to it and you're getting the boot, then definitely have sex.
>JM< |
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| DaveSaenz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dj_Psygnosis
I think having sex is worse cause your actually making the wider and making it looser so it changes her appearance in a way..
BUT kissing is just *smooch* and your off...no harm done..
BUT both is considered cheating. |
LOL. Couldn't stop laughing. I don't think that's correct though...:conf:
If your tounge is in her mouth exploring it, it's changing the physical shape of her cheeks @ times....
Anyways.........:rolleyes: |
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| cUbe |
| depends if that someone else was my sister!!! :eek: |
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