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interesting night, one for the ladies to give advice on id say,
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| SoulSupply |
well, last night i went to the theatre with a very good friend of mine, nothing big, her sister and 2 of her sisters friends went as well, and it was a really good night. then i went back to her place and we were sitting on the couch and i asked her to my graduation dance (which i had planned to do) but also i kinda asked her out (which i hadnt planned to do), totally expecting to get the usuall "i dont want to risk the friendship" speech, i was really taken aback when she said she liked me too, but there was a problem that she thought one of her really good friends, who i have a bit of a history with (nothing ever happened between us, but i liked her for ages and she messed with my head a little), she thought she had started to like me a little. the question is, is that just an excuse or is she being genuine? later when i was leaving we kissed and it was really nice! but i cant help but feeling shes just being too nice to say no.
end of rant.
ladies (and fellas), wot do u make of it? |
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| Rememberence_ |
| It's hard to say from what you've told us mate... but it seems like a weak excuse (as in, sounds like it isn't an excuse), especially after she's said she likes you. I say forget about her friend who has, after all, messed with your head. You like each other, give it a shot. Good luck to you both. |
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| JudgeJulez |
| springtime's here, and love is in the air....ahhhhhh |
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| KaPs |
| i don't kiss people just cause i feel sorry for them ;) |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by KaPs
i don't kiss people just cause i feel sorry for them ;) |
This is a good point... what's your doubt, mate? She's said (and showed) everything you needed to know... it's up to you now :) Show her that she's more important to you than whatever happened in the past with any of her friends :cool: |
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| Paula |
:eyespop:
It's really not that complicated. You're not currently "involved" with her friend, correct? Well if you aren't proceed with the girl (the one that kissed you) thats there. There is absolutely NO point in hanging on to the past if there's nothing there.
Make sense? Don;t waste more time , more of your life, worrying about little things like that.
~~Paula~~ |
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| RedLunatik |
and they called it puppy love  |
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| Endlesswave |
| I say you go with the girl you revealed your feelings to and one you kissed. The other girl messed w your head (doesn't matter if she MAY like you or not, she had the chance but messed it up). Stick with how things are. Goodluck!;) |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
man this is as easy as counthing the digits on ur hand
so girl#1 u ask out says she likes u...she wouldnt have said that if she didnt and was gonna makeup that other thing about her friend (girl #2)
now #1 mightve jsut been concerned because #2 and her may soon drift apart with u being involved with #1...
a policy as u already know among guys is never to date an ex gf or ex crush of a friend of urs..i dunno if thats the case with girls but if #2 messed with ur head and nothing ever happened, it..go for #1..shes being honest with u....especially if she kissed u.. |
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| Prototrance |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
man this is as easy as counthing the digits on ur hand
so girl#1 u ask out says she likes u...she wouldnt have said that if she didnt and was gonna makeup that other thing about her friend (girl #2)
now #1 mightve jsut been concerned because #2 and her may soon drift apart with u being involved with #1...
a policy as u already know among guys is never to date an ex gf or ex crush of a friend of urs..i dunno if thats the case with girls but if #2 messed with ur head and nothing ever happened, it..go for #1..shes being honest with u....especially if she kissed u.. |
Check out the relationship doctor.:D |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Prototrance
Check out the relationship doctor.:D |
hey..im just doin the internship right now....get the PHD in a few years :stongue: |
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| bassaholix |
Ahh easy man.. u like the 1st girl.. for her ... she's the one that you kinda liked.. and besides... you asked her not that other chick!
Hell if you kissed then whats the problem.. i bet you she is thinking about it right now... |
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