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LOVE! Is it worth the risk?
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| brainfried |
| What do you guys/girls think? is falling in love worth the risk of getting heart broken and completly destroyed? It feels soooooo good but then it can feel so bad. |
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| tu_face |
yes.
simple, but true ;) |
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| sooper |
| quote: | Originally posted by brainfried
What do you guys/girls think? is falling in love worth the risk of getting heart broken and completly destroyed? It feels soooooo good but then it can feel so bad. |
Good question!
In my opinion its worth the risk.
I see it like this:
I'm Lactose Intolerant - but I LOVE my cheese.
Eating cheese for me is being in love.
But eating cheese means inevitable diarhea (like a broken heart after love).
Nonetheless, the joy of eating cheese surpasses the torment of liquid poop squirts.
But then one day, you marry cheese, and have dairy children, and the diarhea is gone forever, but your kids grow moldy.
Love is really just that simple. |
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| tu_face |
| quote: | Originally posted by sooper
Good question!
In my opinion its worth the risk.
I see it like this:
I'm Lactose Intolerant - but I LOVE my cheese.
Eating cheese for me is being in love.
But eating cheese means inevitable diarhea (like a broken heart after love).
Nonetheless, the joy of eating cheese surpasses the torment of liquid poop squirts.
But then one day, you marry cheese, and have dairy children, and the diarhea is gone forever, but your kids grow moldy.
Love is really just that simple. |
lmao :stongue:
well, better than i put it anyway.. |
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| Shudder |
| quote: | Originally posted by sooper
I see it like this:
I'm Lactose Intolerant - but I LOVE my cheese.
Eating cheese for me is being in love.
But eating cheese means inevitable diarhea (like a broken heart after love).
Nonetheless, the joy of eating cheese surpasses the torment of liquid poop squirts.
But then one day, you marry cheese, and have dairy children, and the diarhea is gone forever, but your kids grow moldy.
Love is really just that simple. |
can't explain it better :D |
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| butterfly |
| i have been asking myself that everyday. i am in one of the most hopeless depressions i have ever been in right now and it is over this very topic. i fell in love for the first time only to not recieve it in return. that hurt more than anything i could ever have imagined but at the same time it felt so amazing to be able to love someone else and to open up to him completely. even though i am in horrible pain now i am glad i know what it feels like to love because it makes life so much more wonderful. and then i get depressed cause i don't have it in my life..... *sigh* |
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| sooper |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
i have been asking myself that everyday. i am in one of the most hopeless depressions i have ever been in right now and it is over this very topic. i fell in love for the first time only to not recieve it in return. that hurt more than anything i could ever have imagined but at the same time it felt so amazing to be able to love someone else and to open up to him completely. even though i am in horrible pain now i am glad i know what it feels like to love because it makes life so much more wonderful. and then i get depressed cause i don't have it in my life..... *sigh* |
Time is the healer - its the biggest truth, although in your situation it maybe the hardest thing to believe. Look forward to loving again!
In the mean time, enjoy lots of internet porn. |
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| brainfried |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
i have been asking myself that everyday. i am in one of the most hopeless depressions i have ever been in right now and it is over this very topic. i fell in love for the first time only to not recieve it in return. that hurt more than anything i could ever have imagined but at the same time it felt so amazing to be able to love someone else and to open up to him completely. even though i am in horrible pain now i am glad i know what it feels like to love because it makes life so much more wonderful. and then i get depressed cause i don't have it in my life..... *sigh* |
Thats exactly what happened to me and i guess now im able to finnalu talk about it. But i know how you feel i really did go ing crazy, it still comes back sometimes but i guess time really is a healer. Hope you feel better.
Still dont know if id ever let myself into that again, but life does seem kind of empty without love |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by sooper
Time is the healer - its the biggest truth, although in your situation it maybe the hardest thing to believe. Look forward to loving again!
In the mean time, enjoy lots of internet porn. |
who needs internet porn when i have my vibrator? (although it broke :()
but anyway... yeah i know about time and yeah it is hard to beleive. you'd think after a month that i wouldn't break into tears this easily.... but i can't possbily be this way forever so i can only look forward to the future. |
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| X-Multiply |
Its definitely worth the risk. Yes when things don't work out, the pain is without a doubt the worst thing one can ever know. Its like dying slowly while still alive. I've been there several times in the past and no amount of comfort from friends or family will help you. You are sick and the only known cure is the one you lost.
But life goes on and you live another day to try to find love again. After going through what I explained above several times, I once again took a chance again with a girl I met. That was 8 years ago and that girl turned out not only to be the girl of my dreams, but eventually my wife. We are not meant to go through this life alone. I say go for it. ;) |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by brainfried
Still dont know if id ever let myself into that again, but life does seem kind of empty without love |
Exactly. I'm a little reluctant to develop feelings like that for ANYBODY unless I know and am fairly certain things will work out...that is why I think love sucks ass imo because it has never worked out for me. Ever.:mad: |
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| Sugarbean |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
I think love sucks ass imo because it has never worked out for me. Ever.:mad: |
me too...
not worth it. |
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