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| speedracer_mec |
my gf is secretly talkin to her ex....but not kissing or nuttin...they still talk!..
and went out to get ice cream
wut do i do! |
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| DJ-Fuq |
| how did u find out? |
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| Endlesswave |
| So what? If they're not doing anything what's the big deal? IF you find out that she is doing anything then drop her like a sack of ...but until then I don't see the problem... |
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| speedracer_mec |
she told she loves me...
but she told she is stilltalkin to himm yadadada
and still cares about him...
do i set an ultimatium...
btw i live 90 miles away from her and visit her on the weekends...cuz i go to school away from her |
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| bassaholix |
Tell her straight wats going on with her ex? does she still have feelings for him?
Also just ask it straight, dun't act like u dun care n care too much as well...
Cause if you start making accusations then it gets messy, if she goes
"welllll..."
kiss her goodbye |
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| daffodil |
how did you find out? if you were snooping, you can't say anything because that'll just get you in more trouble. if you found out legitimately, ask her why she kept it a secret ("i didn't want you to get upset and think it meant anything because it doesn't.") chances are it's nothing. just about every girl i know wants to stay on friendly terms with her ex, because that's a nice thing to do :rolleyes: well, there's that and girls tend to like as much male attention as they can get.
don't make accusations and immediately put her on the defensive. just ask in a neutral way. "are you still talking to paul?" not "why are you still talking to paul? are you cheating on me?" |
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| speedracer_mec |
she told me straight up...and said she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen...
but 4 hrs ago she dumped me..so it doesnt mattter now |
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| wushuboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
she told me straight up...and said she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen...
but 4 hrs ago she dumped me..so it doesnt mattter now |
wow.. what a biatch.:whip: :whip: |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| if she says she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen that is bollocks! sorry she dumped you but it sounds like you are better off this way! |
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| NYCTrancefan |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
she told me straight up...and said she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen...
but 4 hrs ago she dumped me..so it doesnt mattter now |
Yo, seriously man, just be around some friends, since you are at college go out and try to relax yourself in a group setting, dwelling a lot on it isn't helpful. Key is be around your friends, not off by yourself. Relationships can be a bitch but remember there are plenty of women out there, this isn't the only one even though it may seem so now. Take it easy and keep your head up. |
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| DJ RozzeR |
| just put a desert eagle .50 to his head he will the idea :) |
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| politicsofdancin |
omg...and you believe her bs?????
:rolleyes: sometimes people are soo naive!!!! do you really buy that she is only talking to him??? plzzzzzzz she wants to have her cake and eat it too ..that's what it is...dump her ass |
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