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| Jackson |
I need to address this situation...as its really getting to me.
So i've been getting more and more and more aggressive since october time. Whenever my parents come into my room to ask how my day was or if my gf msgs me on msn i suddenly get angry and tensed up.
Or for example, i went to sleep at 10ish, my gf tried calling me at 11:30 and it didnt wake me up, but when i realised in the morning that she tried to call me at that time i got really pissy about it...
I dunno why i do this....maybe the reason i get angry when people come into my room or my gf messages me on msn is because i'm putting up my guard incase an argument starts...which they usually do happen in my room.
I only seem to get angry with my parents, sister and gf. Please someone suggest a method to stop this? Its detroying my relationship and me! |
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| XoxidE |
| Sing that I feel pretty song.:D |
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| stevieboy32808 |
| take midol. |
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| Ripped Bag |
| I had rage problems for a while, I dealed with it with more exercise |
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| jonSun |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jackson
I need to address this situation...as its really getting to me.
So i've been getting more and more and more aggressive since october time. Whenever my parents come into my room to ask how my day was or if my gf msgs me on msn i suddenly get angry and tensed up.
Or for example, i went to sleep at 10ish, my gf tried calling me at 11:30 and it didnt wake me up, but when i realised in the morning that she tried to call me at that time i got really pissy about it...
I dunno why i do this....maybe the reason i get angry when people come into my room or my gf messages me on msn is because i'm putting up my guard incase an argument starts...which they usually do happen in my room.
I only seem to get angry with my parents, sister and gf. Please someone suggest a method to stop this? Its detroying my relationship and me! |
I always get the same way with chicks & parents. With the parents its time to move out, you need independence & privacy. With the chick, you need to lose her even though u still might love her, its a sign. I just wish I acted on my signs sooner. |
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| Floorfiller |
you say that you are putting your gaurd up to protect against an argument, which usually does happen...
but perhaps the reason for the argument is the aggressiveness?
i dunno really what to tell you except that i think your aggressiveness is a reaction of the stress in your life about the various things we've talked about before. you feel on guard because of the things you think aren't working out.
find a way to deal with the things that you are worried about and that aggressiveness will go away... |
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| weymouth |
| I do the same thing. It is because of two reasons: I want to be alone and hate it when people come in my space when I want some personal time away from people. It also happens when I neglect responsibilities and feel guilty about it and I always think that the people talking to me is going to criticize me because of that neglect. |
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| nchs09 |
BE AGRESSIVE BE BE AGRESSIVE!
srsly quit being such a bitch to everyone.. when u know is about to go down calm down! get a grip of yoruself man! |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| I know what you mean, Jackson. My brother is dealing with the same thing. The only thing I can say is that if its really affecting your life as much as you say it is then you should talk to someone and try to figure out why youre being so aggressive. I know that "talking to someone" is cliche, but TA doesnt have "PhD" at the end of its name for a reason. |
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| Jackson |
| quote: | Originally posted by weymouth
I do the same thing. It is because of two reasons: I want to be alone and hate it when people come in my space when I want some personal time away from people. It also happens when I neglect responsibilities and feel guilty about it and I always think that the people talking to me is going to criticize me because of that neglect. |
Wow, exactly the same with me...also if i've done something...anything...i pannic and worry my parents will critisize/shout at me so i ready myself for that confrontation...
How do you deal with that though? |
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| igottaknow |
| its because you hate your life and your taking it out on who ever is around you. edit: its also time to move out of your parents place. |
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| Jackson |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
BE AGRESSIVE BE BE AGRESSIVE!
srsly quit being such a bitch to everyone.. when u know is about to go down calm down! get a grip of yoruself man! |
nchs09 have u just hit puberty? You've change man.... |
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