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| quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
i found cigs and a lighter among my gf's stuff yesterday (we live together)
she was really embarassed when i confronted her about it and lied ("they're my friend's"). after I called her out on her hair smelling like smoke occasionally and the fact that I noticed her new lighter once before she said she'd always had it, she knew finally admitted to having started smoking, but told me that she's disgusted by it and that she wants to stop. Being so embarrassed about it, I don't even know if she told me the actual extent to which she has been smoking, so I'm not sure how difficult it will be for her to quit.
I tossed her cigs and lighter in the trash chute.
gahh.. i've definitely had a few cigarettes in my life (not in years though), but all-in-all the habit disgusts me, and i really don't want my potential baby mama to be sucking on that shit, nor do i want to smell it in her hair and see it on her face and teeth, and above all, I don't want her to feel bad about something that disgusts her as well.
Never been in this situation, but I think I'm doing the right thing, and helping her. |
Pfffffffffffthahahahaha.
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