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djsphere
producer in training



Registered: Apr 2003
Location: bucharest

it's not necessary wrong...it all depends on how your girlfriend feels about you sleeping with other chicks. but that's it, only sex, nothing more. when it's more than just sex then it's wrong imo.

cheers!


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IpLaYWiTLiGhTs
FIST PUMP



Registered: Feb 2003
Location: Hawaii :D

quote:
Originally posted by medinaM5
are u fist fucking me? everything is wrong if ur in a relationship yet sleeping with someone else. its like 9/11 the remix


elaborate please.

quote:
Originally posted by djsphere
it's not necessary wrong...it all depends on how your girlfriend feels about you sleeping with other chicks but that's it, only sex, nothing more. when it's more than just sex then it's wrong imo.

cheers!

So if your significant other was just "having sex" with another, would you be ok with it?


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quote:
Originally posted by siastyle
Okay iv hurd the Album and lemmi tell you guyz.... Tiesto is gono make it back to the top again with these hits. The thing about it is that hes trying 2 bring a new style tho just like he did with Just be and it worked. they songs areunt TOO HIGHT up. but the vocals acaully are the best thing in 2007. The Track Carpe Noctum is like traffic but it hink he could of prefected the shit ouf it. but generalllyy its an amazing album...oh and Ten Seconds Before Sunrise is like Forever today TIMES 12

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djsphere
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Registered: Apr 2003
Location: bucharest

quote:
Originally posted by IpLaYWiTLiGhTs
So if your significant other was just "having sex" with another, would you be ok with it?


no way dude, that only applies to me. HAHAHAHHAHAHAH


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Old Post Jan-31-2007 11:50  Romania
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IpLaYWiTLiGhTs
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quote:
Originally posted by djsphere
no way dude, that only applies to me. HAHAHAHHAHAHAH


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quote:
Originally posted by siastyle
Okay iv hurd the Album and lemmi tell you guyz.... Tiesto is gono make it back to the top again with these hits. The thing about it is that hes trying 2 bring a new style tho just like he did with Just be and it worked. they songs areunt TOO HIGHT up. but the vocals acaully are the best thing in 2007. The Track Carpe Noctum is like traffic but it hink he could of prefected the shit ouf it. but generalllyy its an amazing album...oh and Ten Seconds Before Sunrise is like Forever today TIMES 12

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Lilith
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Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats

Aside from the risk of severely damaging someones emotions and exposing them to diseases, genetically there is no advantage for someone to be raising anothers offspring. Its the way we're wired and to some degree how society is wired, if youre not bothered by emotions, disease or raising anothers children whilst living outside of normal society then you could probably get away with it to some degree.

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Zharen
Put down the plate



Registered: Mar 2003
Location: On a spit of sand we call Earth

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
It is just a piece of cultural information that has no more objective value than the latest fashion trends. You are free to accept or reject it, but you can't escape the reality that you will be judged by it.


Brilliant.

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CranberryJuice
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Le Mans (my new shithole) -France

having sex with your bf or gf is an intime moment shared by both of you ,

from the moment one of you is doing the same (having sex) with someone else most of the time the other person wont know it before it happens unless it's let's say an open relationship ; as a result the trust u've put in your bf or gf is altered , but more than that it's the simple act to have sex with someone else while u are officially involved with someone which is hard to accept

so even if it's purely sexual with the other person and there are no feelings involved it's still hard to handle and accept and to go on having a relationship

personally ive never cheated on anyone but having been cheated on was such an intense pain and so hurtful that even if i was already considering to be faithful as something very very important and wasnt envisaging to be with someone else while involved with someone ....it comforted me in this position because i simply wouldnt like to bring pain and suffering like i experienced to someone else

to sum up i wouldnt like to do something i didnt appreciate at all to someone !


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having sex with your bf or gf is an intime moment shared by both of you

Why is it intimate? (what I think you meant)

Is it because the general purpose is to conveive another being? What if contraceptives (protection) is used and that purpose is defeated?

I'm just rambling...bear with me .


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quote:
Originally posted by siastyle
Okay iv hurd the Album and lemmi tell you guyz.... Tiesto is gono make it back to the top again with these hits. The thing about it is that hes trying 2 bring a new style tho just like he did with Just be and it worked. they songs areunt TOO HIGHT up. but the vocals acaully are the best thing in 2007. The Track Carpe Noctum is like traffic but it hink he could of prefected the shit ouf it. but generalllyy its an amazing album...oh and Ten Seconds Before Sunrise is like Forever today TIMES 12

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denys envy
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Registered: Mar 2004
Location: falLAcy, CA

well i'm the biggest whore out there, and even i think it's wrong.

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CranberryJuice
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Le Mans (my new shithole) -France

quote:
Originally posted by IpLaYWiTLiGhTs
Why is it intimate? (what I think you meant)

Is it because the general purpose is to conveive another being? What if contraceptives (protection) is used and that purpose is defeated?

I'm just rambling...bear with me .



blahhhhh lol too tired to reply now

time to nap and then essay time


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Old Post Jan-31-2007 12:34  France
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Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%



Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%

My personal thoughts... Sex is a multi-purpose activity; it can be had as a bonding exercise between loving partners, it can be done strictly for procreation, or it can be had exclusively for recreation. I've never strictly equated sex with love, it is quite possible to love someone and not have sex with them or have sex with them and not love them. I also believe that having sex with someone other then ones partner if the motivation is strictly recreation does not indicate one loves their partner any less. That said, I have not and would not have sex with someone other then Mrs. Hazard because I know she does not feel the same way about this subject as I do. She would be hurt if I were to have sex with someone else, therefore, I deem such activity to be "wrong" (for lack of a better word) as it would cause pain to she whom I hold most dear.


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Ian
Not dead yet.



Registered: Dec 2001
Location: UK

personally i wouldn't do it, because I wouldn't want it done to me.

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