Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Huntington Beach, CA (block from ocean)
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Originally posted by bubbleravegirl
mann u dunno how MANY friends (age 29 and up) i used to have who wouldnt even put themselves "out there" or even be somewhat approachable...im like, well then ur kinda contributing to ur loss column arent u. fo real. its funny a lot of ppl my age are single not by choice and they dun even have a clue on how to get outta that situation. ive actually had ppl come up to me and be like, "how are you so open?" but its really not hard at all...
Remember, I'm nearly 29 so we're near the same age. I was that sort a few years ago but luckily the haze malaise drifted away.
A lot of people I know just sit there and wallow in their own sorrow. I don't get it. The real secret is doing things that you like to do in an envorionment around people... and good things will come. Be out there with a smile on your face because you're enjoying yourself, that can only lead to others seeing your happiness and wanting to be part of it.
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Nov-23-2004 16:50
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Originally posted by nerve
People tend to look at me funny because of the fact I have this glow that says "HEY I'M FROM NYC, PAY ATTENTION TO ME" so I'm told by my co-workers up here.
interesting...a GLOW that SAYS ur from NYC..."hey..LOOOOOK AT MEEEHHH!"
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Nov-23-2004 16:50
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Originally posted by Member of X
Remember, I'm nearly 29 so we're near the same age. I was that sort a few years ago but luckily the haze malaise drifted away.
A lot of people I know just sit there and wallow in their own sorrow. I don't get it. The real secret is doing things that you like to do in an envorionment around people... and good things will come. Be out there with a smile on your face because you're enjoying yourself, that can only lead to others seeing your happiness and wanting to be part of it.
yeah i know we are similiar in age...i forget my age a lot though cuz of the company i keep but it doesnt even really matter. ahha.
i see that ppl are def MORE bold when they are younger then somehow that changes as they get older...i def see a lot of adults that keep to themselves...but no reason really...like u said, go out enjoy urself and be happy with urself, that type of vibe does PROJECT and ppl are like DRAWN to it xD thats the secret kekek.
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Nov-23-2004 17:03
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Location: Huntington Beach, CA (block from ocean)
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Originally posted by nerve
Hehe.. I just moved up NH from NYC... coming up here has been rough and finding people to associate with has been even harder. People tend to look at me funny because of the fact I have this glow that says "HEY I'M FROM NYC, PAY ATTENTION TO ME" so I'm told by my co-workers up here.
Well, I definitely acquired more of a swagger once I started living here. Yours just transcends outwards still...just like mine when I return home on the west coast.
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Nov-23-2004 17:15
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Originally posted by bubbleravegirl
yeah i know we are similiar in age...i forget my age a lot though cuz of the company i keep but it doesnt even really matter. ahha.
i see that ppl are def MORE bold when they are younger then somehow that changes as they get older...i def see a lot of adults that keep to themselves...but no reason really...like u said, go out enjoy urself and be happy with urself, that type of vibe does PROJECT and ppl are like DRAWN to it xD thats the secret kekek.
I went to a high school reunion and boy did that boost my confidence. They were the same age but sure didn't look it. Some people are just young at heart like us. Maybe it's the good music we listen and dance to.
Yeah, I think many younger people are just more willing to take risks. I never want to lose that!!
You know how young kids are so easy to meet people, including strangers. They just walk up to you and start blabbing away. I try to keep that essence.
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Nov-23-2004 17:20
phoenixBEBE
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Originally posted by Member of X
I went to a high school reunion and boy did that boost my confidence. They were the same age but sure didn't look it. Some people are just young at heart like us. Maybe it's the good music we listen and dance to.
Yeah, I think many younger people are just more willing to take risks. I never want to lose that!!
You know how young kids are so easy to meet people, including strangers. They just walk up to you and start blabbing away. I try to keep that essence.
lols i didnt even go...iono for some reason i feel VERY detached from my past life...its just not important. ive changed soo much...and i see the ppl that stayed the way they were. many arent happy really either...hmmz...
although ppl have def told me that when they hear about my situation they certainly feel about a million yrs older than i am. hah -=P
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Nov-23-2004 17:41
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Location: Queens, NYC / New Hampshire
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Originally posted by bubbleravegirl
interesting...a GLOW that SAYS ur from NYC..."hey..LOOOOOK AT MEEEHHH!"
Don't mind me... since coming up here.. I've realized how much NYC pride I have.
Nov-23-2004 18:58
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Location: Brooklyn NY
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Originally posted by BxNemo
word, i'm goin for a golden penis
now would they really be able to see that?
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Nov-23-2004 19:04
phoenixBEBE
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Originally posted by nerve
Don't mind me... since coming up here.. I've realized how much NYC pride I have.
lols we just sophisticated new yorkers. hehehe
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Nov-23-2004 20:16
nerve
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Location: Queens, NYC / New Hampshire
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Originally posted by bubbleravegirl
lols we just sophisticated new yorkers. hehehe
It just seems that we new yorkers tend to care more about ourselves than most other people. =0
Nov-23-2004 20:33
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back on topic
i want pioneer headphones and some ortofon needles santa!!!
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I want....
More ram for my pc
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A shopping spree at Ikea for my new apt.