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Seriously Asking a Girl Out.. (pg. 13)
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | [i][b]
edit/update: for those of you who dont wanna scroll down, she has a bf:( :( :( :( :( :confused::whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: |
I see you've learned one of life's harshest lessons. The good ones all have bf's :( :( :( :( :( |
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| Orbax |
| and their boyfriends are s you forgot that part |
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| bassaholix |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
and their boyfriends are s you forgot that part |
Think we covered that to the 10th degree by now... |
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| Orbax |
| dude... dont EVEN send the ing letter |
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| DigiNut |
Living alone - one very good point. I find it so much easier to chat people up in Kingston when I'm just with my roommates (who aren't home half the time) than here in TO with my parents... bleh. Cars are also a factor. For me the thought of having to call a taxi (or worse, take the bus with a girl) is just embarrassing.
Anyway, understand that a helluva lot of those "s", "playaz" etc. out there end up sleeping with girls who have boyfriends. Just because they're in a relationship doesn't mean they're sleeping with him, doesn't mean they're happy with him, doesn't necessarily even mean that they like him, so you might as well just make your move anyway, you'll find out quickly whether or not you need to back off. And unless they are the kind of girl you'd like to have as just a friend (which is fine, I have friends like this), don't you want this info ASAP? If a girl wants to be 100% committed to a guy, she'll marry him. Otherwise it's open territory as far as I'm concerned. Girls, can you honestly say you've never flirted with a guy who has a girlfriend? I distinctly remember girls who normally never noticed me start hitting on me once I had a g/f.
Just go for it buddy, ignore this rebound because rebound relationships die hard and fast anyway. Again, unless you want to keep this girl as a friend with the knowledge that you can't get any closer, what have you got to lose? |
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| USMC_Greg |
| That makes perfect sense d00d |
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| PhloTron |
I forgot what I was going to say...
*shrug* |
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| MrSquirrel |
What ever happened to the "friend" who needed advice?
MrS |
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| DemonicAardvark |
ok, so now i need a little advice. theres this girl that im pretty good friends with. her best friend (who i am also friends with) revealed to me that this girl really liked me. (this was about a week ago). the problem is this girl now likes another guy, after a week... well anyway, i was wondering if i should ask her out.. i dont want to if she would say no because then being friends with her after would be pretty awkward. i know you're just going to say "yeah, why not" or something, but i'm pretty shy and i dont really think i would do this without thinking about it.
edit: and i REALLY hate pity, i would never go out with anyone thats just doing out of pity (i dont get very many girlfriends because i'm too shy to do anything) |
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| surferfb |
| Just do it man. Ask her out, if she says no, it's her loss. It's you who will let things get weird, as long as you don't get mad at her if she says no, things will be fine. |
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| USMC_Greg |
| quote: | Originally posted by DemonicAardvark
ok, so now i need a little advice. theres this girl that im pretty good friends with. her best friend (who i am also friends with) revealed to me that this girl really liked me. (this was about a week ago). the problem is this girl now likes another guy, after a week... well anyway, i was wondering if i should ask her out.. i dont want to if she would say no because then being friends with her after would be pretty awkward. i know you're just going to say "yeah, why not" or something, but i'm pretty shy and i dont really think i would do this without thinking about it.
edit: and i REALLY hate pity, i would never go out with anyone thats just doing out of pity (i dont get very many girlfriends because i'm too shy to do anything) |
I think the rewards out weigh the risks.
If you succeed in getting her out, you will eventually end up with some .
If you fail, you will feel bad for 3 days then start thinking of a plot to pick up some other chick.
I hope that puts things into perspective |
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| CraveTheRave |
| You gotta take the chance, it seems pretty good for you too. If not, don't let things get awkward. If she does let it get awkward, it's her problem and deal with that when you get to it. Good luck. |
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