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| timmyboy2 |
I have a situation with a girl and I need some advice.
I was hanging out with this girl last year at college and I wanted to be more than friends so I took her to a bar and bought like $15.00 worth of beer and she said something like "I like to be friends with a guy first" and I said something like "well I wish you were attracted to me but I don't think you are." and she said "why do guys only care about sex."
Well some of my friends told me she was just playing me and trying to get free drinks so I didn't hang out with her as much. I kind of told her I need a lover not another friend.
But this year(new semester) we went to a party and she said something about being more than friends.
There is also the fact that shes Polish Catholic and I'm trying to figure out if she is still a virgin. I don't want to break in a virgin |
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| DJ-Fuq |
| Dont waste more time/money on her than u need to. Just cut the bs and ask her if she likes u or not. Girls will use u for free drinks and , avoid that. |
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| UWM |
| Don't waste your time with her she's probably just looking for free stuff from you because she knows you are attracted to her. |
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| gwrmarines |
| Man thats why i try to stay away from that. I'd rather sleep with a stranger, em, em all:whip: |
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| MrSquirrel |
One of the guys I went to college with had an "old saying":
"For a catholic schoolgirl it is not sex if you can't get pregnant from it. "
You can work that out for yourself :D
MrS |
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| Orbax |
#1 lol MrS...
#2 I like to be friends with girls first too. Lets you kind of ease into it and can tally up the signals a lil so you might think, ite, well I dont think shell mind me putting my around around her.
HOW TO TURN WOMEN ON
touch them!!!!!!!!
like when you greet them hug them, then make jokes and give em little love taps on the shoulder. dont touch them sexually, but the whole touching thing works. Ive done it a million times and we always end up in their bed or something (me deciding i need a cuddle bitch for the night, cuz me a good boy still virgin). So keep doing it. Not tons, but throughout a night maybe 5-6 times. Then hug when tey leave. then refer to how to treat them on other thread
NO SEXUAL TOUCHING
NO TALKING ABOUT SEX/ATTRACTION WHICH EQUALS SEX
it scares them. it disgusts them. it turns them off!
women are FEELERS, if you try to talk about what they are feeling, theyll feel violated because right now you and the feelings you cause in her are strangers, so dont intrude, :D
more later |
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| UWM |
| oarbacks you need to start drinking again. |
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| Orbax |
I dunno man...wait...techinically I dont have anything to do tomorrow.
damn you! lemme ponder |
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| DigiNut |
You didn't mention how long you hung out with her, but I'd say if it was more than a couple of months, and she still hasn't shown any sign of affection, she's using you. Don't waste your time and money.
Also, Orbax is right, but that only works if you're touchy-feely from the start... if you're normally not a touchy person and you suddenly start doing that, they'll catch on pretty fast. |
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| Orbax |
#1 they have to be attracted to you somewhat, its not a lightswitch.
#2 im NOT a touchy feely person at all. I mean Ill wrestle and . But I hate anything other than handshakes, and hugs seem kind of pointless unless im trying to jump your bones.(when im drunk im all over everyone)
#3 It can happen in an amazingly short period of time. Im talkin a week or two.
#4 just get drunk with her. My friends friend came over 2 times. The first time I met her, she hated me, but I kept in around with her. Next time. Were laying down on the couch if you know what I mean *nudge elbow nudge. Didnt drink the first time, drank the second...awww specialness in a bottle, so great |
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| Orbax |
hehe. No...I use GHB. Rohypnol stays in their body for 12 hours or so, so if they wake up and are like WTF! they can run to a clinic, and youre ed. GHB is gone in like an hour or so. Much safer.
edit * i mean so ive heard |
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