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Need Some Serious Advice! (pg. 3)
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| dj adagnitio |
| quote: | Originally posted by VaNFeCto
No no thats not the issue man, the issue is that in my religion its basically like if u hang with drug dealers u might as well be one. It has nothing to do with my sexuality, Im confident around gay people got no problem with them in the least bit, i guess Im looking at it from a religious point. |
I would honestly like you to show me any religious document that says that? I dont tihnk anything of that sort is listed anywhere int he bible/torah/book of the dead/etc.
| quote: | Originally posted by nate735
I wouldnt go, i could never enjoy the music when you have all those gay guys around you. I would just be to nervous that some dude would try an pick me up. :nervous: :nervous: :nervous: |
And this simply makes me sick. |
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| VaNFeCto |
| quote: | Originally posted by Emerald
Amen. I am VaNFecto's friend and I am certainly straight, and nothing will stop me from seeing Tiesto.. Im swamped with exams and the fact that this club is a gay club doesn't bother me a bit, cause I know i wanna just have fun and hear Tiesto play. I've already missed him twice and it aint gonna happen again.
KEN stop being stupid. You had better be going with us or you will never hear the end of it from me or Alan. Stick your religious beliefs in a sack for one night and stop worrying. Bleh... I'll talk to you in person |
haha I was hoping u werent goin to see this thread hahaha, I dunno man I mean Ive already switched the money to my checking account so it looks like a pretty much done deal. |
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| VaNFeCto |
| quote: | Originally posted by Beat_Chemist
Ok I'm gunna Guess your Southern Baptist? Coming from Dallas myself I know what its like, you do live in the bible belt afterall.
Look I'm christian myself, the thing is the bible doesn't say you can't hang out with homosexual men or lesbians. Infact the bible teaches us tolerence towards individuals. I have heard of a passage in there something about how its a sin for men to sleep together like a man and a woman. Dunno where that is, but I dont' think its a sin, I strongly beleive homosexuals can enter the kingdom of heaven.
Can you picture Jesus, all knowing, and one of the most peaceful people, ex. he let people nail him even tho he knew about it in advance. Do you honestly think if he saw a gay man he'd be like, he he, ur gunna burn in hell, go urself.
No.... I don't think so... So if you dont' feel comfortable GO!!!
You obviously have trouble addressing gay individuals as a majority, fact is your gunna run into more of them in life. Sure they are ez to deal with when is just you and your 1 friend. But u seem to be anxt. about a group of them, Where you'd feel out of place, the minority.
Face your fear, you'll find its not bad, if they hit on you which I doubt, you should feel flattered. Men are way more open about expression than women, you can guage where u stand, u hot or not? Great confidence booster, also gay poeple are a totally diff. paradigm somthing new, something ur not used to might be fun. Girls were scary till you found out they were fun right? Djing in front of a crowds scary till u get up there right?
If your really that ing afraid, you might wanna ask urself why. Is it, I don't feel comofortable being looked upon as a piece of ass? I haven't ever fully made sure I was straight so I might find out I'm gay, bi kinda thing? Either way if you wanna avoid gay men hitting on you dress straight.
Don't trim your nails prior,
Go irish, don't shower, spritz on cologn and some deoderant
Wear baggy pants that hide ur figure,
Wear something hetero like a beer shirt, frat shirt, what have u
MOST IMPORTANT HAVE a GREAT ING TIME!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Dude u hit the ing nail on the head I am Southern Baptist, thanx a lot man. I cannot tell u how much I appreciate ure advice. TAHNX A LOT AGAIN MAN. ITS OFFICIAL IM GOIN!!!! |
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| nate735 |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj adagnitio
And this simply makes me sick. |
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: |
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| dancingpixie |
| quote: | Originally posted by nate735
I wouldnt go, i could never enjoy the music when you have all those gay guys around you. I would just be to nervous that some dude would try an pick me up. :nervous: :nervous: :nervous: |
sweetie....they're gay...they're not desparate. :crazy: just because they like guys doesnt mean they are gonna go for every guy they run into. :disbelief |
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| keke |
| Just go and enjoy the music !! Just make sure to take "No Entry" sign to cover your butt !! |
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| nate735 |
| quote: | Originally posted by dancingpixie
sweetie....they're gay...they're not desparate. :crazy: just because they like guys doesnt mean they are gonna go for every guy they run into. :disbelief |
Not when your in a gay club, if they think your "cute" there gonna go for you. Plus your in a gay club so they think that your gay. |
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| dancingpixie |
| quote: | Originally posted by nate735
Not when your in a gay club, if they think your "cute" there gonna go for you. Plus your in a gay club so they think that your gay. |
sorry about that...calling people sweetie is kind of a habit. but tiesto is a public event and im sure that they will respect you, and they know that not everyone there is gay. of course if you're flamin' then they would hit on you...or check you out. and even if they do hit on you, its not gonna hurt just to tell them your straight. :tongue3 |
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| nate735 |
| quote: | Originally posted by dancingpixie
and even if they do hit on you, its not gonna hurt just to tell them your straight. :tongue3 |
Which after a while becomes annoying, and takes away from the enjoyment. But that is just my opinion. |
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| dancingpixie |
| i can understand that.....i'd still go though!:eyes: |
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| digitalbreach |
1st. tix were $25 bucks so its not a "regular" night
(most regulars probably don't know Tiesto and wouldn't pay 20+ for someone they don't know)
2nd. If you feel strongly about your religion then u shouldn't go.
3rd. Its TiEsTo for s sake. (and in H-town)
see u @ the show. :tongue3 :tongue3
fyi: gay ppl did get incinerated in the BIBLE
book of Genesis>>> Sodom and Gomohrra (spelling might be off):o |
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| daydreamer |
hey Vanfecto
I will be wearing a shirt that says .
heterosexual
hands off you!!!
let me know your size so i can get one made for you as well.
:D
seriously glad you decided to join. just stick with the rest of us straight TA's and you will do just fine.
-dreamer |
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