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Topic of conversation 4 a girl u just met?
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| Kirk |
Ok...basically i do ok with women, but one thing im no good at and im sure im not alone on this, is when your out clubbing/bar crawling whatever.. u see a girl that catches your eye, she notices u blah blah.. anyways u go over to her, and i then always find myself lost for words!!!
what basic start up conversation do the rest of u make?
Cheers, take it easy........ |
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| GelatinPufF |
"hey babe, wanna ? ;)"
You'll be suprised at how often it works :D |
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| Slylee |
| just walk up to her and say, "so, what do you want to talk about" |
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| Kirk |
| quote: | Originally posted by GelatinPufF
"hey babe, wanna ? ;)"
You'll be suprised at how often it works :D |
lol!!, although im open to ideas, not ones that are gonna get me a slap in the face :)
Fair play if it works 4 u ;) |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by GelatinPufF
"hey babe, wanna ? ;)"
You'll be suprised at how often it works :D |
he might have a point there...i think if a guy walked up to me and said that, i would crack up and assume he was making a joke and find him funny. |
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| placebo |
Just be like:
"Y HALO THAR!
DO YOU LIKE BUTTSEKZ?!!!?!?!!11
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLZ" |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by GelatinPufF
"hey babe, wanna ? ;)"
You'll be suprised at how often it works :D |
I've always been partial to "Nice shoes, wanna ?" but that works as well :) |
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| dj tek |
| lol.. just be yourself.. introduce yourself, ask her who shes there with.. depending on where you guys are i guess different topics will come up.. key is to be polite and not come off like 90% of guys outhere.. :p |
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| UglyDave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
just walk up to her and say, "so, what do you want to talk about" |
that one might just work. never heard it before, but i might try it at the bar tonight.. but i'll probably get some crazy mean sour look and run off to the corner with my tail between my legs.. |
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| TranceGiant |
| I'm guilty of using the "r u often here?" one last time. But it worked :) See it as a means to an ends...small talk is not more than that. Unfortunately we as humans need such a redundant thing to break the ice. |
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| GelatinPufF |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kirk
lol!!, although im open to ideas, not ones that are gonna get me a slap in the face :)
Fair play if it works 4 u ;) |
Why would a girl slap you in the face for? :conf: I mean really, the only reason a chick goes to a club is to get laid anyway, just like guys.
I mean think about this: You walk up to a girl, and tell them you think they're cute. There reaction: They'll be flattered, possibly embarressed etc. etc. You've already made the fact that you like them clear, so you can ask her if she's with anyone, ask if she wants a drink, ask her if she wants to come to the chillout room with you etc. etc.
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Imagine there reaction if you walked up to them and just went "hey babe, wanna ?;)" Just think about how you would feel if a girl came up to you and said that:D Just don't think of girls as ball breakers, because most of the one's lining up at clubs are quiet slutty and want the ;) |
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