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F*ck this life (pg. 2)
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| Terayon |
| cry me a riverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr |
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| Omegasox |
| What's the point of staying there for your job if it doesn't even pay the bills? Doesn't sound like a job worth staying for. Move back home. |
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| Nell |
attention seeker.
top yourself, or at least pretend to so you can come back as someone else on TA with a new avatar etc.
anyway...
life is a series of distractions until you die,just enjoy it, get what you want out of it. All i want is a nice girl to settle down with, adn be reasonably comfortable to lead a half decent life.
figure out waht you want and go do it. if you dont want anything, just have a laugh until you find a goal. etc etc etc.
quite the attention seeking though, bit lame tbh. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nell
attention seeker.
top yourself, or at least pretend to so you can come back as someone else on TA with a new avatar etc.
anyway...
life is a series of distractions until you die,just enjoy it, get what you want out of it. All i want is a nice girl to settle down with, adn be reasonably comfortable to lead a half decent life.
figure out waht you want and go do it. if you dont want anything, just have a laugh until you find a goal. etc etc etc.
quite the attention seeking though, bit lame tbh. |
I hate attention seekers more than anyone, but that's pretty inappropriate. Yes he wants attention, he's ing depressed, of course he wants attention. What's the problem with that? If you were having a ty time, wouldn't you want people to listen to you and cheer you up?
This isn't the same kind of "attention-seeking" as the "I'm bored" or "I'm drunk" or "I'm a girl" or "I'm bisexual" threads. It's someone with an honest problem - I could just as easily tell you that your "interference" thread was "attention seeking" - after all, you wanted people to reply, didn't you? And speaking of attention seeking, I don't think he really cared about what YOU want out of life.
Sheesh, give the guy a break... and N|te-L|fe, it really just sounds like you made a bad decision to move. From what you've told us, there's really nothing for you in Ottawa. Go home, get a new job, work off the weight you gained, and spend time with your friends again. A lot of us should only be so lucky to be able to get away from our problems simply by relocating - if you have the opportunity, then take it. |
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| Maaz |
Move back home. If you're still sad in your home town, than you know you problem is something else. But if you're happy there, than it's all good, right? :)
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Life sucks, deal with it... whats with all this talk of suicide? FFS, you people are pathetic... |
It's something that happened in TA a while ago. And no, it wasn't pathetic, think before you speak: if you don't know the context, or if you've never experienced this situation, then don't judge and your silence can be more useful than your words. Better yet, don't judge in any case ;) |
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| Nell |
its the fact he said he nearly killed himself 2 minutes ago.
its a load of . 80% of attempted suicides arent even genuine attemtps, theyre just cries for help etc. I think the clinical term is 'small cutting'.
fair enough say 'my life has no goals' etc but telling people you nearly stabbed yourself is just plain lame. just my opinion. anyway, i know it will rile people when i say this.. but suicide is a cowards way out.
if your gunna do it, try robbing a bank first to totally turn your life around. if it fails, it fails. :) |
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| UnBracKo |
| Try to start a new life in Ottawa, I'm sure there are a lot of good things to do in there; play sport, cultural things... A movement in a different city needs time, with patience you'll have new friends, maybe a love...;) |
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| Boomer187 |
Ah I think Frankie on real world San Diego said it best when she said, "you gotta grab life by the horns, or else your just waiting to die."
for such a ty show there was something there. Make life pleasurable for you and it'll all be good. I think it is time to find new things, and as open to change as well all think we are, we usually hate it with a passion.
seriously, find out what others do, try it out. Find new things to do. HAve friends come visit and do cool things. try try try, and if in 6 months you still think you are waiting to die, move back, your not ready for a life change. |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nell
if your gunna do it, try robbing a bank first to totally turn your life around. if it fails, it fails. :) |
Sure, then you might even shoot someone who's got absolutely nothing to do with your sadness, like a security guard who's working so he can raise his family ;)
Certainly, that's the smart choice :) |
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| Harmonic |
Life is all about moments. Looking at life as a whole can really depress most. Its the day to day moments, I think, that give life meaning. You might be down now, but you won't stay that way.
Carpe Diem and all that good stuff. |
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| DJ Mikey Mike |
Not meaning to try and ignore your first post mate, but since a thread of this nature is already open I thought i'd take the opportunity to give my 2 cents on why life can just the off. Just when I thought my life was starting to pick up, I go and have the most test day ever. Recently started a new job where I am in control of the stock for my local shop. It was mint because I hate jobs where I have to do boring and simple stuff; this job gave me responsiblities and required some thought, and was a bit more challenging. Also, the money was well good!
But today everything just went Pete Tong :( Firstly I had plans after work to meet with a very good friend that has recently come back from uni. We quickly met up the other day to like catch up and it was so good to see him again and hear what he's been up to the past couple of years. But this was only for like an hour so we arraned to go play snooker today. Unfortunately at the last minute his ride back had to leave earlier than expected so he had to text me at work to say he couldn't make it. Then, my manager calls me into his office to inform me that he regretfully has to drastically cut my hours :( I finally find a job that I enjoy and love the people I work with and this fecking happens. I need more hours so it looks like i'm gonna have to search again for a new job. I was so pissed that I just walked out and took my lunch early, only to get started on by some ing twat in this restaurant type bar thingy. By now I was so angry and I took it out on some poor employee that works with me. Got into a bit of an argument (completely all my fault, I just needed to 'vent' as they say.) I will apologise properly tomorow :( And to top it all off when I got home someone had left a key in the back door meaning I was locked out! ffs. I know all that doesn't sound like much, but recently my parents have also split up which was definitely for the best, but quite recently my dad has started getting quite nasty. It just seems that all this has literally come in a day, and with all this pressure from teachers of what i'm gonna do next year regarding either uni, or getting a proper career type job and I just don't know what I want to ing do with my life!
So i join you in telling life to off. Just when you start to sort things out and get on your feet life just knocks you rite back down.  |
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| Abject Silver |
| quote: | Originally posted by N|te-L|fe
Here it is: I was forced to move to Ottawa last summer for work, and I honestly hate this city, it's just BORING, nothing to do..
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uhh, dude. if you can't find something to do here, then you're already lost. ottawa's not ibiza, that's for certain, but trust me, there's more than enough to do in this town. i mean, last week i went to see max graham on a thursday night. max g? for a town like ottawa?
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secondly, the rents are waaaaay too high and I had to borrow money from my parents twice just to survive.. the thing is I was used to having more then enough money back where I used to live so I feel very low having to borrow money just to survive..
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get room mates.
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Third, I lost my car recently, freakin slippery road and had to sell the body cause the engine was dead, now I'm looking for something else and I dont have enough money to pay for something new right away..
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i've gotten by without a car quite well. if you live way out in the burbs, then yes, it's a tad harder, but the public transpo in ottawa is great.
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Fourth, I am slowly loosing most of my friends by moving here cause I can't see them as much and long-distance are pretty costy
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that happens, man. go out, meet some new friends.
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Fifth of all: Since I moved, I took a bad habit of eating to forget about my problems.. it cost me 40 extra pounds, wich doesnt help feeling well with myself..
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well, that's a byproduct of what you stated above. get rid of everything above and you'll get rid of the pounds.
and you can meet quite a few women by going to the gym. *hint hint*
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Well anyway I wasnt looking for any pity here, just had to say it I guess.. life can be a bitch sometimes..I already feel a bit better typing all that, until the next depression I guess...:sadgreen: |
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