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| Carona |
| quote: | Originally posted by Shad0wmaster
It's for these reasons of "fakeness" and girls playing hard to get that I pretty much gave up on trying to meet girls in clubs. Guys trying to pimp out and be players are heads IMO. When I go out I'm there to hear good music, see people I know and get wrecked. Period. There are just too many annoying, phony, bitchy girls out there for me to bother trying to chat with them. If a girl is interested in me, then it is ENTIRELY up to her to make the first move. If a girl comes up and dances/chats with me then that's fine, I'm always very nice...I don't put up with girls making stupid innuendos like bumping into me out of the clear blue to get my attention or whatever. Either they come up to me and make it clear that they're interested, or I leave them alone and have a good time. |
Wow, I know exactly where your coming from. I can't stand seeing the fake Britney look a likes hook up with the chachi's on the dance floor. It's like watching an episode of EC.
If i'm going to bar it's with friends and i'm usually there to get pissed, laugh and have a good time.
| quote: | Originally posted by MysticStardust
Thanks!! Finally I can find out where stuff happens in Van. Im actually from Surrey (which technically is Van) |
I wouldn't want to admit I was from Surrey eithier :p |
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| Shad0wmaster |
| Looks like this thread's been hijacked by BCTAs :p |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by MysticStardust
I resent the black and white comment:rolleyes: . I just say the way things are. It's hard to believe that "fun" guys get chosen for long term relationships because as far as I know, all of them are irresponsible and immature( and I thought long term relationships were based on responsibility, maturity and respect). However, that is just my opinion and I think you'd know better (since you're a guy and I bet you belong to "fun" guy club as well...am I right?). :p |
Being fun doesn't mean you can't be mature and responsible. The two aren't mutually exclusive. If you're mature and responsible all the time women will get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere. You've gotta know how tomix things up sometimes.
| quote: | | quote: | | "The smart ones have a habit of making too big a deal of the fact that they're getting "picked up", and it's intimidating to everyone but the very experienced and the complete s." |
Does that mean all guys are only interested in easy s? |
I think he's just sayin what every guy thinks: Girls pretend they're not interested even when we know they are, but guys go through the motions of playing their hard-to-get game anyway. It's really demeaning.
Personally I don't play the game anymore, I just tell it like it is. If I ask a girl out to dinner and I see her pretending to hesitate, I won't act disappointed or try to convince her I just say "don't worry if you can't come. It's your loss really, I'll be eating my dinner whether you're there or not"... works like a charm. It's about time people cut the crap stopped playing mind-games.
| quote: | | P.S My question was not bitter. I simply tried to show that guys and girls are the same. Sometimes, we are attracted to opposite sex for very stupid reasons, e.g. "fakeness"( or over-confidence) in males and big boobs/blonde hair/ no brain in females. |
Sometimes guys are after sex, in which case a dumb blonde with big boobs will do just fine thank you... When we're after relationships most guys, I find, have a set of simple criteria, they know what they're after and just want things to be straight forward. Girls, on the other hand are far more complex... they say they like sensitive guys who can treat a woman nice, then they fall for some cos he's got bad-boy appeal (whatever that is?), then they'll hang out with some fake ass clown who makes them laugh etc... I dunno I think we'll never understand it. |
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| Shad0wmaster |
It's interesting that you mention mind games when asking a girl out...I don't play mind games either, and it's sick that some girls think they can pull that with guys. Who the hell are they kidding anyway?
I think I can usually size up a girl's personality reasonably well, and if I think that she'll try to mind me when I'm talking to her, I just steer clear...maybe I've just been lucky so far but it helps me avoid the skanks who I'd rather not deal with :p |
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| anuneventrade |
It's all about who makes you feel safe/happy 
No matter how many times any of you try to analyze it, you're never going to figure out just what is the key to attracting women. It's impossible. Each person is different and has a different set of criteria/likes/dislikes... there's no big secret, sorry to burst your bubble. What is attractive to me, may not be attractive to the girl sitting directly next to me.
Good luck trying to figure it out guys..... you never will. |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Shad0wmaster
I think I can usually size up a girl's personality reasonably well, and if I think that she'll try to mind me when I'm talking to her, I just steer clear...maybe I've just been lucky so far but it helps me avoid the skanks who I'd rather not deal with :p |
Yeah, if they're the type that like to play games, just refuse to be pulled into it. This is especially good with hot chicks who are used to guys dancing circles around them to please them. If you just treat them normally, don't play games and play it perfectly straight without any BS, they'll often actually see you as more of a challenge and be attracted by it. People that are constantly buying presents for a girl and treating her extra nice all the time, get taken for granted and trampled on. If you act normally, apart from being more of a challenge, when you do act nice it'l be appreciated. Also it's much easier to be confident when you're acting natural so it works to your advantage there too. I guess it all comes down to the truism that people always tell you: Be yourself! ... Don't change for women. |
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| Mr. Pink |
| Avoid drama queens...that's my advice;) |
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| MysticStardust |
| quote: | Originally posted by Carona
I wouldn't want to admit I was from Surrey eithier :p |
LoL Yeah. Thanks for understanding.
No mind games:eek: :( ??? But they're so much fun:D . If we're treated as sex objects most of time, we should get some reward, this is where mind games come in. PLS Don't take that away from us!!!!:( :p |
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| Mr. Pink |
If women are going to be playing mind games, might as well leave the physical games open to the men......we're good at that, and shouldn't be penalized for it. ;)
sex is good:tongue3 |
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| MysticStardust |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
If women are going to be playing mind games, might as well leave the physical games open to the men......we're good at that, and shouldn't be penalized for it. ;)
sex is good:tongue3 |
Alrighty then. It's setteled, you treat us as sex objects and we'll treat you as our toys.:D Then, we'll see who'll have more fun and who will be more messed in the end.;) :p |
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| Frost_Melt |
Originally posted by DigiNut
"Everything was going great... until she opened her mouth"
not always... |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
It's all about who makes you feel safe/happy
No matter how many times any of you try to analyze it, you're never going to figure out just what is the key to attracting women. It's impossible. Each person is different and has a different set of criteria/likes/dislikes... there's no big secret, sorry to burst your bubble. What is attractive to me, may not be attractive to the girl sitting directly next to me.
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Well I reallise that, but almost every woman I run into can't seem to be able to decide what she finds attractive... First she wants the bad guy, then the funny guy, then the sensitive guy, then the nice guy... I see people get seriously messed up by all of this... That's why I've opted out of the mind games :D
| quote: | Originally posted by Frost_Melt
Originally posted by DigiNut
"Everything was going great... until she opened her mouth"
not always... |
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