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| TrAnCe CoNtRoL |
| this is just something i have a hard time understanding right now. if its there and you both want the same thing, ing take it. i hate these damn head games. why do girls want guys to do this:mad:. this girl and i both like each other and i pretty much talk to her or see her everyday, and now she wants me to play hard to get? i just dont get it. someone help me out here. |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| if she wants you to play hard to get then she is obviously all about stupid head games and will probably cause you misery in the future. Don't cave in and play the head games, everyone will lose. |
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| discitelli |
wait, she wants YOU to play hard to get? i don't understand, shouldnt it be the other way around?
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| Shudder |
| i got sucked into one of them mind games once. since i dont do mind games, my life became miserable for a certain period. those girls arent worth it from what i know. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by TrAnCe CoNtRoL
this is just something i have a hard time understanding right now. if its there and you both want the same thing, ing take it. i hate these damn head games. why do girls want guys to do this:mad:. this girl and i both like each other and i pretty much talk to her or see her everyday, and now she wants me to play hard to get? i just dont get it. someone help me out here. |
The particular girls you are referring to want guys to do this because they are ed up, stuck up, used to having guys go after them, and the only way to really be noticed is to treat them like crap (i.e. different from how all the other guys treat them).
It's bloody sad, and that's why I don't bother to associate with those girls anymore. I used to get upset when I would tell off those girls and then see them with other guys, thinking I'd had a chance and ed up, but then I saw how miserable those guys were putting up with all that . Trust me, it's better to stay single than deal with mind games.
Edit: And I assume "she" wants "him" to play hard to get by virtue of the fact that she just ignores him when he's nice to her. |
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| TrAnCe CoNtRoL |
| quote: | Originally posted by discitelli
wait, she wants YOU to play hard to get? i don't understand, shouldnt it be the other way around?
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yeah...she wants me to play hard to get. i guess she wants me to act dis-interested and then when i dont call for a couple days she'll wonder why or whatever and then she'll want to call me. i dont get it. i think shes leading me on. but damn shes hot. |
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| Algenis |
| sometimes its cool. |
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| discitelli |
| quote: | Originally posted by TrAnCe CoNtRoL
yeah...she wants me to play hard to get. i guess she wants me to act dis-interested and then when i dont call for a couple days she'll wonder why or whatever and then she'll want to call me. i dont get it. i think shes leading me on. but damn shes hot. |
thanks, now i understand. i would suggest you go along with it, but not on an emotional level, just physical. See the things is, like the above TA's have mentioned, is that these mind games lead nowhere and you just tend to lose respect for the girl. But, if she really is hot, and you truly belive you have a chance, play those mind games in the hope that it will get you layed.
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| nic01445 |
| you are all wrong. Just let her play hard to get, then bang her, then leave. The standard hit-it-and-forget-it. Even if you have no chance or getting action, tell all your friends and even people you don't know that you did. She will then realize how hurtful her actions were, and will bang you. |
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| Mr. Pink |
if you play hard to get...
will she play susy the slut secretary?
i mean, since we're role playing n' all. |
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| Arbiter |
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this is just something i have a hard time understanding right now. if its there and you both want the same thing, ing take it. i hate these damn head games. why do girls want guys to do this. this girl and i both like each other and i pretty much talk to her or see her everyday, and now she wants me to play hard to get? i just dont get it. someone help me out here.
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Allow me to let you in on a little secret: the vast majority of women have no idea what they really want.
This girl may think she wants you to play hard to get, but she's probably wrong. Just remember how many women say they like "nice guys" (as opposed to how many actually do).
So what should you do? It's simple really, just be yourself. Either it will work out or it won't, but trying to do what she says she wants you to do isn't going to make it any more likely to work out. In fact, it's quite possible that it would make it less likely to work out. |
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| nic01445 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
So what should you do? It's simple really, just be yourself. Either it will work out or it won't, but trying to do what she says she wants you to do isn't going to make it any more likely to work out. In fact, it's quite possible that it would make it less likely to work out. |
lies upon lies upon lies. Whatever you do: DO NOT BE YOURSELF! Being yourself will NOT get you laid. |
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