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*BEWARE* yet another girl advice thread...
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| Inertia |
well... this starts yet ANOTHER of those what to do girl threads... posted here for your amusement. feel free to fully describe what your opinion is, if youve had similar occurences, if you think i should just jump her and kill him, etc.
so... here's the scenario:
i was born. i grew to age 6. i commenced elementary school. it was gay. eventually, by grade 5, i hated all around me (ok, so i didnt hate everyone, just ive always had a little bit of a problem fitting in). basically 98% of the females in the class were complete snobs/plastic/airheads so i wanted nothing to do with them. there was this one chick, that was pretty hot, and was very nice. we were friends. anyways, i was also good friends with her big brother (is 3-4 years older than myself). time has passed. much time. i had transferred schools after the 6th grade. i always kept contact with the big brother over the web, wehad common interests, we even started a webpage together once. i kept getting deeper and deeper into electronica, and so was he.
in the 9th grade, at age 14, i was already tired of the common bull my peers would do every weekend, and for a good while, was simply not going out. Deep Dish visits my little island, and i MUST see them. so i do. and i bump into that guy again. we become better friends, and we go to clubs n like that together. also did talk to his sis now and then over msn and stuff, saw her a couple times at the movies. nothing blah. anyways, i am now 17.
so, about a month ago, this guy calls me up, to accompany him to this technicians shop, he had acquired a pair of tech12mk2's, and was gonna get em fixed. he knew i enjoyed this type of stuff, so i went along. we get an estimate, go pickup a few things the guy needed and didnt have at his shop. 2 days later, he gets his babies and calls me to go over to his house. so i do, im teaching him basically how to get his beats matched (he knew what to do in theory, but had never really attempted to mix, and im no James Zabiela, but ive put a beat over another a few times. my skills are quite shabby, but i know all he would need to know at this level). anyways, im in his room spinning, and he crashes on the bed for a while (he'd gone to uni without sleeping the night before) and suddenly i feel someone sorta kick me in the back of the leg. i turn around and :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: its her, and daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn is she hot. i act natural, and say hi completely normal, later on, when we're done spinning and we're chilling in the living room, she comes out, we chat and stuff, she's just as nice as always. so i keep hanging out with her bro, and he is one of my best buds, and she looks hotter every day. they do not get along, but he rubs me as one of those big brothers that doesnt give a rats ass about his sister, while at the same time, reading to smack the out of any guy that looks at her.
so you understand my dilemma. we have
element A: extremely hot chick, who is smart, nice, and available.
element B: me. lonely sad me. heh.
element C: her big bro/good friend of mine, which would probably not approve. not to mention he would hate the idea of his sister being places where he is, which are basically places where i am, and even though he has cooled down now, he takes a puff once or twice, therefore he cant have her see that. should i be with this girl, its understood it would be necessary for her to go out with me.
so... discuss.
PS: for PICS OR STFU whores, i am scavenging for a pic, so just wait a while. discuss in the meantime. and no, not sending any letters. |
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| nchs09 |
friends over girls..
i cant belive u said everyone was snobby, everyone was so cool while i lived there, is not even funny
oh well different times, different places, different people |
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| Inertia |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
friends over girls..
i cant belive u said everyone was snobby, everyone was so cool while i lived there, is not even funny
oh well different times, different places, different people |
you lived here? and EVERYONE was cool? you smoked a lot didnt you?:p :D |
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| gwrmarines |
I don't feel like reading that all right now but what nchs09 said i take it your talking about friends over girls.
Just remember this, bros b4 hoes
Disregard this post if thats not what your talking about. |
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| albertoR |
| why dont you joke around and say his sister is hot see how he reacts. If he reacts badly just tell him ur kidding. If he dosent just ask him casually and cool "would you be cool if i would go out with your sister". Dont put a serious face when you say it though. |
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| Inertia |
^^^ well, if i recall, some of his friends have sort of joked with him bout it. and he didnt really laugh.
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I don't feel like reading that all right now but what nchs09 said i take it your talking about friends over girls.
Just remember this, bros b4 hoes
Disregard this post if thats not what your talking about | sure, bro's before hoes. but its not exactly the case :p |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Inertia
you lived here? and EVERYONE was cool? you smoked a lot didnt you?:p :D | i was like 10, of course i didnt smoke too much, but at the age of 10 through 15, everyone was preatty cool.... :) at least the peeps at school and the peeps that lived around me |
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| Inertia |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
i was like 10, of course i didnt smoke too much, but at the age of 10 through 15, everyone was preatty cool.... :) at least the peeps at school and the peeps that lived around me |
how long ago was this, and where did you go to school? (lets try to stay on subject please... although, this is interesting :p) |
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| Arbiter |
Well, it will probably just continue to weigh on your mind until you do something to resolve the situation, and just trying to pretend it doesn't exist isn't likely to work.
I'm not 100% sure about the "friends over girls" mantra in this case. If you can't even sit down with the guy and be honest with him then he's not much of a friend IMO. |
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| nchs09 |
| this was back in in the day, maybe i got the dates wrong, i just threw out some dates, i lived there from like 1993 to 1997..... i went to St. George.. or wtvr it was called, it was the british school, i know that for sure, and i lived like 3 blocks from it.... going away from the malecon |
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| daffodil |
somebody's gotta say it, so i guess it'll be me.
DON'T SEND THE LETTER! |
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| PhloTron |
| quote: | Originally posted by daffodil
somebody's gotta say it, so i guess it'll be me.
DON'T SEND THE LETTER! |
he said he wasn't going to "send the letter" in the last statement of his original post....
...good effort :thepirate :thepirate |
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