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OMG my gf got pregnant (pg. 4)
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| DjDarling |
| quote: | Originally posted by mto
By anti-abortion, i meant that i do not approve abortion. I see what you mean though.. i dont know what to tell you man. Stay strong, pray.. doctors.. be there for her.. |
Wow. This is pretty serious man but it sounds like you two are old enough to handle it accordingly? I think you guys are very smart to not get another abortion, it's such a serious matter and something that is so hard to live with. I can't imagine it....All I can say but I know you probably already know is be there for her, be there for her. Good luck with absolutely everything :) And if the kid looks anything like CynepMeH's kid, you're laughin' cuz that kid is ADORABLE! |
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| LinX |
| and dont forget to treat the kid right, feed him, change him, give him baths, and get him a little pair of headphones so he can discover trance early and maybe grow up to be the next #1 dj.... |
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| SkyHigh |
Thank you all..For not flaming me ..I hope my daughter is ok .No I dea still how to make my g/g feel better .:( Every 2nd day sick sick sick.
And anti-abortion people are not soo smart |
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| trancEyes22 |
| cutest little guy ever, cynep!!!! |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by moncster
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moncster, did you have sex with a Japanese girl (ninja-style even)?? |
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| h0tsweetbabyd0l |
hi skyhigh ....
i don't think as people already said that anyone is ready for having a child ....but if u feel u want this baby keep it ....nothing worse than having a kid when u really don't want ....in this case i think abortion is better because once u have a kid u gotta love the kid take care of him and behave like a parent
but i wish u good luck with everything and u got all my support ! |
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| CynepMeH |
| quote: | Originally posted by SkyHigh
WOW ..thank you ..Im still kind of scared..But I hope it goes awayy
but its less worrisome ..that somoone else had the same experience |
If you need a fellow TA-dad support, pm me :). My wife said she was pregnant and I had the same friggin reaction - "I'm a kid myself, I'm not ready, what the hell am I going to do" bla bla bla... but the truth is that once you face the facts and get over the initial fear, it actually is a great experience. I mean it's more responsibility than we (men) would ever wanna have but if it was up to us, the world would die out after the first few generations... :D
I swear tho, my kid is a born ta. He dances his ass off when he hears trance and man - the most hilarious thing is he has one finger up in the air, pumping his little fist - it's to die for.
Besides, think of all the great possibilities for abuse of the power: "Why? Because I'm your dad and I said so!" :D
I'm glad we had a kid this "early" - this way I can actually associate with him easier. My dad had 42 years on me and we often did not see eye to eye. Just when I started to appreciate his advise he passed away...
Anyway, if u think this is early - most people in countries like Russia, Ukraine, Eastern europe and so on have families by the time they are 20 or so. My sister became a mother at the age of 18, many of the students I had from former Soviet republics were in their early 20's with 2 kids or so.
I think in US people just don't mature as quickly which leads to the whole "scared" thing. Just chill out, relax - if she's comfortable and you are comfortable with each other the kid will only bring you closer. All this BS about life being over when you have kids is comming from people who are too chicken to take on additional responsibility. The key though, you can't force her to make any decision she'd regret later and blame you for it. If you care about her and don'w want to loose her, don't shove your opinions down her throat. If you think you're scared - think of how she feels. She needs someone to back her up 100% no matter what.
Also, I'm not pro-life or pro-abortion... but I will tell you this - there are literally millions of women who'd give everything to have a child but they can't... Our friends have been trying for the last 5 years and have sank close to 100K for various treatments and BS to get pregnant - and no results. just something to keep in mind... you may not get another chance... your call, though, no matter what anyone tells you here. |
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| CynepMeH |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancEyes22
cutest little guy ever, cynep!!!! |
Thank you ;) but he's a load and a half. kid has a spring in his ass, I swear - doesn't sit still for 5 seconds... I get peace only when he's watching "Finding Nemo":D |
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| SkyHigh |
WOW Thank you CynepMeH..!!
Im freaked out ..but happy at the same time...IM just worried about my g/f ...not taking this too good...(she)
I wish theis was over so she can be cool again...my kiddo will br the greatest female DJ ever |
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| CynepMeH |
| quote: | Originally posted by moncster
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That jumper is classic! LOL :D BTW, I had a Twilo bib for my son - and judging by the date on when doctor estimated conception, I swear PvD in Twilo probably had something to do with it :D |
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| trancEyes22 |
| monster, is that your baby too!!! *tear* all these cute babies are making my maternal instinct kick in and i'm not yet even a mommy! :p |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nou
Like is she physically sick?
If she is definitly want to keep the doctors on her for a while to make sure that it doesnt complicate anything later on! :(
If she isnt ready for this in her head, just calm her and comfort her and be there for her every need man.
Best wishes and good luck, and its only the first day (that its in your mind), so calm yourself too! |
its usually morning sickness when girls are first pregnent. Plus the extra stress and anxiety of knowing your life is gonna be difficult.
and isn';t abortion illegal now?? |
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