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OMG my gf got pregnant (pg. 5)
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancEyes22
monster, is that your baby too!!! *tear* all these cute babies are making my maternal instinct kick in and i'm not yet even a mommy! :p |
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| montie |
as to your g/f being sick....
being sick is normal. be sure to reguarly check in with the doctor. and if you ever think something is really wrong theres nothing wrong with bringing her into the hospital and seeing the doctor. better safe than sorry.
she's prolly so sick more due to emotional reasons than physical. your freaking out, but think about her. she has another person growing in side of her and which she has to out. not ot mention the whole responsibility of it for pretty much the rest of her life.
from what i've heard i'd definatly not advise an abortion (i'm neither fully pro or anti either way, altho i think abortion is an incredibly depressing and horrible thing). you both are about of a good age to have kids (my mom was 24 when she had me, my dad 26). people hype having kids up today like its a bad thing, but baby's/having a kid and raising one is a wonderful experience. i'm looking forward to it in my future.
be sure you are able to provide for the kid financially. you said you had a stable job i think. so make sure you stay with it, and hopefully will be able to rise up the chain in the future.
the best thing you can do is be very supportive of your g/f. right now she's freaking out more than you are. be strong for her and don't force her to do anything she doesn't want. do whatever you can to make her comfertable. and assure her that you will stay with her. i'm not saying get married or anything, but be there for that kid no matter what happens between the two of you.
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| montie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nou
actualllly both are legal in the US, well for me anyways, girl on bottom is 16 and girl on top is 20, and as long as you are not 60 months older than the person you are with and its consentual intercourse in the state of washington its not statutory rape...
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i'd like to make babies with both of them |
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| Trance(PL) |
| Kids ing suck , how did my parents ever deal with it. |
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| Ocean-Glow |
Well no use having a head down for this (both of you). Enjoy this as much as posible as you will now raise a new life which is a creation from both of you :)
She wight feel sick but dos advices above is the way to go. Just support her and be there for her as much as possible to show her you care and she will be just fine :D |
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| LoCa |
CynepMeH, you have got the cutest little boy ever!!!
I would gush on and on about him but in the interest of my boyfriend ever seeing this thread and my reply, i will supress the maternal instincts :p
But still, adorable little boy! Congrats on having such a beautiful baby :) |
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| Sand Leaper |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trance(PL)
Kids ing suck , how did my parents ever deal with it. |
I think this is where "love" comes in. |
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| Ste |
| unlucky, hahahahahaha |
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| mentalbarter |
| and all these girl TAs appear as if from nowhere |
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| Massive84 |
i aint a dad, am only 19 :rolleyes:
But i can easly assume, if you are ready for a kid, than you have to be ready, and not just say it..
it's something that will stay forever with you.
if your girlfriend says she ain't ready, then you have some problem mate, you must be BOTH ready, a kid, cost money and time, + you have to be there everyday, if your kid is sick, you cant go out for example.
i hope aswell you have a good releationship with your girlfriend, if something happens that make you 2 breakup, it wont be good for the kid or would it?
Meh is right, don't freak out that much, you have 9 months till your kid comes to this world its enough time to educate yourself and to plann everything out.
for a regular human, having a kid is nothing that big, it's just a phase, whatever you do it on your 40st life year or 20.
it's all about the right time, and if you think it's now(both actually) then go for it :), good luck |
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| Streakfury |
Hey SkyHigh, congrats man!!
Having a kid, man that's crazy :eyes:, but I wouldn't mind kids in the future. I'm only 20 and still at uni, but sometime before I'm 30 I'd like a couple. :D
Make sure you fall asleep every night with a bit of prog playing in the background. We want to make sure she grows up knowing what good music is :D. As for names, I love the names Kobi and Sydney for girls, but maybe that's just my exotic tastes :p
All the best anyways, and keep us up to date!!
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
who is that in your sig. Because if it isnt your girlfriend you ways need to change!
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Wow, that's exactly what I was thinking.
How do you think your g/f feels while she is carrying your baby and you look at pron on the Internet the whole day? Of course she is going to be sick. |
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