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Relationship q (NOT advice)
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| DigiNut |
I was privy to a neat little public spectacle today of a guy telling off his girlfriend (both of whom were complete strangers to me, FYI, this happened in a coffee shop), and it got me thinking...
Say you had to pick between one of two extremes:
A: A total slut that's a constant source of fun and/or comfort for you... and for anyone and everyone else who happens to be in the vicinity; or
B: A bitch/jackass who seems entirely devoted to you but is demanding, possessive, jealous, and often treats you wrong.
Assuming all other personality aspects are equal, which would you pick? I know there are probably some "balanced" people, but I would say that most are leaning at least a little bit toward either A or B, which makes sense because if your significant other doesn't require too much attention from you, there's a good chance they're getting it somewhere else.
I'm curious to everyone's opinion - both from the guys and gals here. |
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| dukes |
| well seen as both options suck i would go with looks. |
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| JayD |
Both options are on the same level like you said. If those were the only types of girls in the world I don't think anyone would be able to stand eachother period.
Stay single?
JaY |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by dukes
well seen as both options suck i would go with looks. |
There was a reason I said "all other things equal". Seriously, both options do suck but that's the whole point. |
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| DarkAngel |
Damn dude, that's extremely hard for me to pick....
:conf:
I love to be spoiled with comfort and all the mushy stuff, but if she's gonna be giving it up to anyone, WTF man.
On the other hand, being devoted to non-stop but being treated WRONG....aw man, if its ANYTHING i hate its being treated like trash.....
This is a major double-edged sword....dude, i cant answer that cuz I honestly dont know......:confused: |
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| spacechica |
I think I would go for the one which calls to my heart the most... ;)
But to answer your question, tough to say, but I may have to lean more towards B. Communication is a two-way "street." :p |
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| jinxed84 |
well if you know shes gonna be with you and with other dudes, providing they are losers maybe A. it just sounds flexible, have your fun and leave ya know?
b would kinda suck. being treated like just isnt fun.
ideal would be inbetween for me IMO(i guess thats true for most people) |
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| DarkAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
There was a reason I said "all other things equal". Seriously, both options do suck but that's the whole point. |
Sigh. it. I been through it once before. For the sake of argument, B. :( |
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| DigiNut |
Ok, just to clarify, obviously very few people literally fit into one extreme or the other - but most people are a little bit leaning toward one side or the other. So I guess what I'm really asking is, which is more important to you - how someone treats you in private, or how they behave themselves in public?
Obviously it's a good thing to be treated right when it's just the two of you, but if that came at the cost of having to feel embarrassed or paranoid, is it worth it?
I'll let people answer, won't reply for a little while - I'm just saying, obviously these both suck, but which one do you think is worse. |
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| Turbonium |
Why not B - just treat her like back. Due to her characteristics, she doesn't seem like the type of girl that would leave you even though you did treat her like .
So basically, you'd both be devoted to one another, she wouldn't be sleeping around etc., and you'd be even again in the sense that you treat each other like . |
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| JayD |
If you had no other option.. B. For A. Having a girl that sleeps around is worse than a girl who's a bitch every now and then.
JaY |
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| moncster |
| B, because both sucks, but at least with B I can feel special/important. |
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